How do you use whips sexually for pleasure or pain?

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How do you use whips sexually for pleasure or pain?

Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
I was just wondering what methods people find most appealing when using whips and hoping people would find a few new ways to use them with their partners. Please feel free to share personal stories, tips, etc below. Thanks!
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Sir Sir
I think that pain can be pleasurable. Maybe not while it's happening, but it can be an erotic and sensual experience. There is a lot of energy packed in whips - when the tip cracks, it sends all of that energy straight into the person on the end of it. I find it to be a dark, loving sort of thing, but that doesn't mean that whips are not still painful. They are (even when used lightly).

I generally use whips on my girl's back and ass, but I will sometimes hit her breasts, let the fall wrap around her neck, hit her genitals. It depends on my mood and the flow of the scene.

My girl says she "doesn't find whips sexual at all." That was her being silly. But really, we don't usually do whips during sex, it is incredibly awkward.
04/29/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
If you have the kind that are listed as "pleasure whips" and shorten the multiple tails, you can use them in a way that's very pleasurable and sexual. Say a type of foreplay.

Use one that has thin tails, shorten all the tails to be about 4 inches in length, then enjoy hitting the genitals with it. If done right she should be essentially begging to come in less than a few minutes.
04/30/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
If you have the kind that are listed as "pleasure whips" and shorten the multiple tails, you can use them in a way that's very pleasurable and sexual. Say a type of foreplay.

Use one that has thin tails, shorten all the tails ...
Is there a resource you might be willing to share for more information or about certain techniques, types of leather whips, the stance, etc?
04/30/2015
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
If you have the kind that are listed as "pleasure whips" and shorten the multiple tails, you can use them in a way that's very pleasurable and sexual. Say a type of foreplay.

Use one that has thin tails, shorten all the tails ...
Whips are not listed as "pleasure whips," but thank you.

I currently own a number of whips of varying lengths.

I use my regular floggers of average length, about twenty inches to twenty-two inches, for genital or breast flogging, I don't need the length shortened. I don't know why you insinuate that I'm doing something wrong because my girl isn't begging to come when being in pain. she begs to come regardless of being in pain or not.

Also, a flogger is not the same thing as a whip, just so you know.
05/01/2015
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Is there a resource you might be willing to share for more information or about certain techniques, types of leather whips, the stance, etc?
I can give you a ton of resources, let me know if you're interested via a message and I will send you some. I do not believe we're allowed to post links in the forums.
05/01/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Is there a resource you might be willing to share for more information or about certain techniques, types of leather whips, the stance, etc?
I don't have time to reply much right now, but pm me with all your questions and I'll try answering them. I don't have a resource like a book or website, but I can give you information and pointers.
05/03/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Sir
Whips are not listed as "pleasure whips," but thank you.

I currently own a number of whips of varying lengths.

I use my regular floggers of average length, about twenty inches to twenty-two inches, for genital or breast ...
Maybe yours aren't, but I've bought a few that are. They're not ones designed for pain but for pleasure. Technically flogging toys include but are not limited to whips, though often the words are used interchangeably.
05/03/2015
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Sir
Whips are not listed as "pleasure whips," but thank you.

I currently own a number of whips of varying lengths.

I use my regular floggers of average length, about twenty inches to twenty-two inches, for genital or breast ...
I know very little about whips. However, I also thought she was talking about "floggers" constructed with soft lashes that don't sting at all.

This thread title should probably read: "How do you use flogging toys sexually for pleasure or pain?". The term "whip" reminds me of leather whips delivering stings.
05/03/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Rossie
I know very little about whips. However, I also thought she was talking about "floggers" constructed with soft lashes that don't sting at all.

This thread title should probably read: "How do you use flogging toys sexually ...
It stings, but in a good way. I think leather is best honestly and I don't bother with ones that are too soft. The idea is that it should sting, but not actually cause severe pain or damage.

I would NEVER purchase one like the barbed wire one that Eden's had been selling for a while, even for pain/punishment. I can also tell you that kind would not work for making her need to come. However, leather would honestly work well. You just need to cut the tails so you have better control over them to hit the clit and not the inner thighs.
05/04/2015
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Rossie
I know very little about whips. However, I also thought she was talking about "floggers" constructed with soft lashes that don't sting at all.

This thread title should probably read: "How do you use flogging toys sexually ...
The term "whip" actually refers to a single tail, multi-plait braided flail. It is braided in such a way that, when cracked, creates a literal sonic boom. That is the cracking sound you hear when a whip cracks correctly.

@Lvstoplay:

Just because something is "designed for pleasure" does not mean that's its original use or even the correct derivative of the product. A whip is a whip is a whip, same with a flogger. Just because YOU think it's designed for something doesn't make it so. Marketing is a ploy. A whip is still a whip. If you use it sensually, that's your business and that's fine, but don't tell me how to do my S&M, because I'm going to still use it for its intended purpose, which is to cause pain.
05/06/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Sir
The term "whip" actually refers to a single tail, multi-plait braided flail. It is braided in such a way that, when cracked, creates a literal sonic boom. That is the cracking sound you hear when a whip cracks ...
I didn't tell you how to do shit honestly. If you don't like my post, simply don't read or respond to them. There are multiple purposes for different items, some are designed to do things a little differently, and whips can be enjoyable. Actually some people enjoy being hit in multiple ways, it's up to individual preference and how things are designed and used.
08/23/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I didn't tell you how to do shit honestly. If you don't like my post, simply don't read or respond to them. There are multiple purposes for different items, some are designed to do things a little differently, and whips can be ...
There is a lot of stuff I use that is contrary to its original design and purpose.

Experimentation is fun.
09/19/2015
Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
I always saw it as pleasurable as long as its in moderate. I enjoy a little bit of pain with whips but some other forms of pain I'm not too keen on.
10/24/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
There is a lot of stuff I use that is contrary to its original design and purpose.

Experimentation is fun.
Care to share?
11/12/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Care to share?
Hockey straps and elastic bands was a good experiment.
11/17/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Hockey straps and elastic bands was a good experiment.
Would you be up to elaborating?
12/30/2015
MASTERS GIRL MASTERS GIRL
My master Uses the Flogger on me for longer periods for punishment and if I get flogged during one of his torture sessions then its short and fun. Usually he will put some sensitize gel on my clit and do it 3 times before he will whip and vibe me or long periods..He loves to see me squirm around and scream thru my ball gag. I too enjoy this. He just started to use anal vibrators on me this year and he makes me vibe that and my pussy while then making me give him a BJ all while I am tied up..so it almost feels like I'm being electrified..my whole body is going thru intense orgasms and that is when it's real exciting. I love bondage tape that stuff is a wonder almost like duct tape is to the building world. Great stuff. The sensitizing gel is great because that has really taken the place over icing me and whipping me. Now he can just put that one and it still feels almost the same without all the wetness all over. Don't get me wrong It gets wet and messy because I can squirt now. What I also think is fun or makes it all feel good is having to count your Flogs or spanks...Like Master says to me I want you to count how many I am giving you if you mess up because of the stinging we start over. Or sometimes he will make me whip myself and watch me. If I mess up he makes me start over. He does his best to try to do that by giving me intense orgasm pleasure. Over all it's a win win situation.
Mar 2, 9:02 am
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by MASTERS GIRL
My master Uses the Flogger on me for longer periods for punishment and if I get flogged during one of his torture sessions then its short and fun. Usually he will put some sensitize gel on my clit and do it 3 times before he will whip and vibe me or ...
Glad it works for you.
Jun 6, 3:53 am
SpankMeDaddy SpankMeDaddy
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Originally posted by Sir
I think that pain can be pleasurable. Maybe not while it's happening, but it can be an erotic and sensual experience. There is a lot of energy packed in whips - when the tip cracks, it sends all of that energy straight into the person on the end ...
There needs to be an all of the above and anything else we can think of answer!
Jun 7, 10:23 pm
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by SpankMeDaddy
There needs to be an all of the above and anything else we can think of answer!
Anything fun to share?
Jun 14, 7:56 am
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