I'm torn (appropriate for a BDSM question) as to which flogging toy to purchase... so help me choose. :)

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I'm torn (appropriate for a BDSM question) as to which flogging toy to purchase... so help me choose. :)

Solar Ray Solar Ray 03/13/2011

I've been looking through EF at all the various flogging tools/toys and I'm trying to decide which would be best to purchase. Here's some of the bestsellers in the flogging category. Choose the one you think is overall the best...

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Solar Ray Solar Ray
Here's the TOP 10 bestsellers among all the flogging toys. Which one of these would you personally choose and why?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Lady Marmelade , Lolla Munz , Tart , PersonalAngel , k3 , Mary-Anne-Xun , Lily Night , newfoundlust , Howells , Cat E.
10  (12%)
Anjulie , Redboxbaby , NuMe , liilii080 , aBeastlyLittleThing , MissAnna , WhoopieDoo , carenautilus , woodsdragon
9  (11%)
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , REDRUM , RosesThorns , dv8 , Shellz31 , (Re)tired Stripper , MaryExy , Brandi Rouxxx , ily , shorejen9
10  (12%)
lucymalfoy , Xavier7 , ShadowKitten , Britt&Daniel , Daniel & Brittany , Ghost , Iron Man , Curiouscat , GONE! , BrittaniMaree , ginnyluvspotter
11  (13%)
Kayla , ellejay , PiratePrincess , toxie m , pinkcupcakes , Miss T , TitsMcScandal , sixfootsex , eggiweg , Mr. E , potstickers , ColorSplash , Lio , Kitt Katt , mllebeauty , Happy Camper , Scarlette , DJBounder , BadgersRose , GroovyBanana , Purpleducklings , Adam02viper , darthkitt3n , chidoll , Drifter86 , Seharra , GoogleQueen , tickle me pink , padmeamidala , ToyGurl , The Curious Couple , LostBoy988 , *Ashley* , sktb0007 , Jon S , Bignuf , DreamWolf , BlooJay , SecretKinksters , Vanille , karenm , higs
42  (51%)
Total votes: 82
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toxie m toxie m
I don't have that particular fleece paddle but I have a similar one and I adore it
03/13/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
These are apples to oranges. Could you at least tell us what pain level you like and what experience level you are?
03/13/2011
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I chose the Leather Paddle with Fleece because I already own the slut paddle. I've used a paddle similar (not sure if it was the same) as the leather w/fleece and really enjoyed the fact that there were two sides that you could use and play with.
03/13/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
The first toy I ever bought was a riding crop--so i am biased. But i think the Leather paddle with flece woudl be a nice beginner toy as well.
03/13/2011
lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
I'd go with a flogger. They seem like people are able to vary the level of pain involved with them more than with other toys.
03/14/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Anjulie
The first toy I ever bought was a riding crop--so i am biased. But i think the Leather paddle with flece woudl be a nice beginner toy as well.
Same here. A crop was our first and our favorite. I said why in question 2.
03/14/2011
RosesThorns RosesThorns
i picked the slut paddle cause its something i have always wanted!
03/14/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
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Originally posted by Solar Ray
Here's the TOP 10 bestsellers among all the flogging toys. Which one of these would you personally choose and why?
The Hearts Leather Whip is nice. It's the most gothic and snazzy looking, and I'd get it if I had extra money, even though we're not into BDSM.
03/14/2011
Scarlette Scarlette
I like the fleece paddle, I think a firm spank with a soft touch is a sexy paradox.
03/15/2011
Tart Tart
I like the Tantric for the price and the fact it is made of fabric. It cannot be cleaned to be used on multiple partners but I think it would be a very sensual experience.
03/18/2011
naughtyjo naughtyjo
I have the Sensua Lelo velvet tassel whip..and LOVE IT!
03/18/2011
ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
These are apples to oranges. Could you at least tell us what pain level you like and what experience level you are?
I agree, some of the toys can hurt more than the others, we need to know how much pain the person has to best be able to recommend something to them that they'll enjoy but not get hurt TOO much by.

none of those imo will do much though, rubber is a fairly crude material for pain play unless it's very thick and heavy, crops are very pinpoint type items that don't distribute pain all that well, personall I would get a nice leather/suede flogger like the Spartacus Loves Cleo (search 'Cleo' to find it) flogger. Floggers allow any amount of force to be sent to the area being flogged, from a little to a lot.
03/18/2011
Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Here's the TOP 10 bestsellers among all the flogging toys. Which one of these would you personally choose and why?
Hearts leather whip!
05/03/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I want that SLUT paddle so fucking bad!
05/04/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I'm not really into BDSM. I have dabbled with it in the past, and it doesn't really give me the pleasure that I seek - nor does it give my partner. However, as far as quality goes, I am saying the leather paddle. It looks like it would give the best quality to you.
05/04/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
i love my riding crop.
09/11/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
i love my riding crop.
Agreed!
09/18/2011
Curiouscat Curiouscat
hearts leather whip looks nice
01/21/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
The leather paddle with fleece looks cool.
01/10/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I'd get the riding crop
01/10/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
I voted the slut paddle cuz I want it. I have a faux leather flogger and a fur slapper and love both of them.
01/10/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I like/have the leather paddle with fleece, I also want the hearts leather whip
01/10/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Hearts leather whip
01/10/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Hearts leather whip
01/10/2013
Cat E. Cat E.
I'd get the pleasure whip.
01/10/2013
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 26
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Ok... so if I wanted some high level pain production... which one of these do you think could best do the job?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Kayla , mllebeauty
2  (4%)
Kitt Katt
1  (2%)
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , pinkcupcakes , Miss T , sixfootsex , Lolla Munz , potstickers , ColorSplash , Lady Marmelade , Lio , Redboxbaby , RosesThorns , Happy Camper , dv8 , DJBounder , NuMe , Purpleducklings , Adam02viper , aBeastlyLittleThing , chidoll , Seharra , GoogleQueen , k3 , tickle me pink , Mary-Anne-Xun , Brandi Rouxxx , *Ashley* , The Curious Couple , newfoundlust , Ghost , ily , sktb0007 , Jon S , Howells , DreamWolf , Iron Man , woodsdragon , BlooJay , GONE! , shorejen9 , BrittaniMaree , ginnyluvspotter
41  (82%)
Daniel & Brittany
1  (2%)
Mr. E
1  (2%)
Xavier7 , ShadowKitten , Shellz31
3  (6%)
Tart
1  (2%)
Total votes: 50
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Kayla Kayla
It depends. The crops can produce a good chunk of pain, but the very slick, very ungiving surface of the Pink Play Heart Paddle just HURTS. The boyfriend whines anytime I take it out.
03/13/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love a good crop! I like pain (as in sting and even reddening my skin for awhile), but I really don't want to be HURT (like down to the muscle or black and blue)! I like that my husband can place the swats with the crop, in tight places. I also love the slap or cracking sound it makes. I am a crop-whore I guess.
03/14/2011
RosesThorns RosesThorns
Riding crops hurt soooo good!
03/14/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
I really think the Hearts Leather Whip could.
03/14/2011
NuMe NuMe
I voted for the riding crop in all three questions. I have and LOVE that crop! It is very easy to control (for a beginner). It looks sharp! And it can produce as much or as little pain as you want.
03/17/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
The rubber whip junior doesn't sting at all. It's really for those who like the idea of a whip but without any real sting or bite.
03/28/2011
Seharra Seharra
I'd go with the crop if you're trying to cause serious pain.
04/09/2011
Britt&Daniel Britt&Daniel
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I love a good crop! I like pain (as in sting and even reddening my skin for awhile), but I really don't want to be HURT (like down to the muscle or black and blue)! I like that my husband can place the swats with the crop, in tight places. I ...
Same for me it's a great turn on!!
05/01/2011
Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Ok... so if I wanted some high level pain production... which one of these do you think could best do the job?
I'd go with the one that says super in the name lol
05/03/2011
BlooJay BlooJay
The riding crop
01/10/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
The crop! Crops can deliver a great sting and leave marks but not bruises when used properly.
01/10/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Riding crop
01/10/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Riding crop
01/10/2013
Total posts: 14
Unique posters: 14
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Which of these 10 do you think would be the best as a "starter" flogging toy to get an entry level start into flogging for fun?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Tart
1  (2%)
Mr. E , Daniel & Brittany , newfoundlust , Jon S
4  (7%)
NuMe
1  (2%)
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Xavier7 , Shellz31 , MaryExy
4  (7%)
ShadowKitten , ginnyluvspotter
2  (4%)
Kayla , ellejay , PiratePrincess , toxie m , pinkcupcakes , Miss T , sixfootsex , Lolla Munz , ColorSplash , Lady Marmelade , Lio , Redboxbaby , RosesThorns , Kitt Katt , mllebeauty , Happy Camper , DJBounder , dv8 , Purpleducklings , Adam02viper , potstickers , aBeastlyLittleThing , chidoll , Seharra , GoogleQueen , k3 , tickle me pink , Mary-Anne-Xun , Brandi Rouxxx , *Ashley* , The Curious Couple , Ghost , ily , sktb0007 , Howells , DreamWolf , Iron Man , woodsdragon , BlooJay , GONE! , shorejen9 , BrittaniMaree
42  (78%)
Total votes: 54
Poll is open
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RosesThorns RosesThorns
Furry is always good to start someone off I think...
03/14/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
Impressions paddle crop definitely.
03/14/2011
Tart Tart
I think the pink hearts paddle would be best for beginners.
03/18/2011
Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Which of these 10 do you think would be the best as a "starter" flogging toy to get an entry level start into flogging for fun?
I'm more of a whip fan lol
05/03/2011
BlooJay BlooJay
Leather paddle with fleece
01/10/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
Any paddle with fur or fleece would work. The faux leather flogger by sex and mischief isn't on your list but its a really good beginner flogger.
01/10/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Leather paddle with fleece
01/10/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Hearts leather whip
01/10/2013
Total posts: 9
Unique posters: 9