In Control?

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In Control?

Kaltir Kaltir
Do you prefer being in control only in the bedroom? For most things? Or for everything in life?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
It's just a role in the bedroom.
16  (15%)
In my house, I am in control of everything.
8  (8%)
It doesn't matter where we are, I AM in control.
19  (18%)
Other - Please elaborate.
62  (59%)
Total votes: 105
Poll is closed
03/05/2011
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Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I'm pretty much in control when I am at work, but I like to take turns with control in the bedroom. I like to be dominant some nights, submissive others
03/06/2011
Tart Tart
I am submissive in sexual situations, but for the rest of my life I have to be in control and on top of things.
03/06/2011
zeebot zeebot
I like to switch it up, being in control is great sometimes, but sometimes submission is really great.
03/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
In life: very in control, in the bedroom: very submissive
03/10/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We switch it up. In and out of the bedroom.
03/11/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
During most situations in life, I'm very much in control, but when it comes to BDSM... I'm very much the subbie.
03/12/2011
BadgersRose BadgersRose
We share the control in and out of the bedroom.
03/20/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I always like to be in control of my main life but sexually, I like a Master to have control!
03/21/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I control the house but I prefer he controls the bedroom.
04/16/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Voted for my guy. He gets the final word on practically everything. Granted, he only brings this up when he has an objection. He's less controlling out of the bedroom, but still is the dominant one.
04/17/2011
Sebmissive Sebmissive
I like being in control of most things in life in general. I'm a bit of a control freak. But in the bedroom, I usually like it better when my man takes control. Of course, I like to reverse the roles, but I enjoy it more when he's more aggressive and I pretty much just let him do whatever he wants.
04/17/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
I am a sub in the bedroom but outside the bedroom my husband and I are fairly equal. I will make the final decisions but not before talking to me for the big things.
04/20/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I love to control some things all the time.
04/20/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love it when my husband takes total control in the bedroom. I still try to top from the bottom though. He keeps encouraging me to take total control now and then. He might be sorry once I finally do.
04/21/2011
Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
I like to control EVERY SINGLE THING in life.
04/21/2011
CantankerousUnagi CantankerousUnagi
Dominant in the bedroom, neutral everywhere else. Them's the breaks, innit?
04/21/2011
sarki sarki
I am in control at home
04/25/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
My husband is in control in and out of the bedroom.
04/28/2011
DustBunny DustBunny
With the field I work in, a women has to fight for her place in the kitchen it's still very much a boy club. So I come off as someone that takes charge and is dominate. But at home and in the bedroom I am very submissive. I think it's more because I only choose to give up control to one person and that's K.
04/29/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
i dont prefer to be in control in the bedroom.. but out i do prefer to be in control in most cases
04/29/2011
soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
In both actual life/relationships and in bed I switch back and forth depending on my mood and my partner. Generally I'm more often dominant in relationships but submissive in bed, but it's still pretty split down the middle.
06/16/2011
reysgirl83 reysgirl83
Just in the bedroom.
06/22/2011
big b big b
its a 50/50 thing go's both ways
06/28/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
I'll be honest I can be pretty bossy, but when it comes down to it I can also be really submissive and I like the guy to be in control.
06/28/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
In the bed I'm quite controlling, and outside of the bedroom I don't mind others doing what they want - as long as they do what I think is best
06/28/2011
CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
I'm a control freak by nature. It's the role where I feel safest and most comfortable, however exploring my submissive self and expanding it outside of the bedroom has been challenging and an incredible journey as well.
07/01/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
She's pretty well always in control, but it takes a special/fun turn when we hit the bedroom.
07/19/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
Do you prefer being in control only in the bedroom? For most things? Or for everything in life?
I am never in control. my Master is.
07/19/2011
JessCee JessCee
i really don't like having control. i'm so much more at ease when i have a partner i trust to have control.
07/19/2011
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