To spank or not to Spank

Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I like to be swatted, but not hard. Paddles and whips hand are ok as long as you don't rare back and knock the crap out of me.
11/30/2011
Contributor: xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
I just like it rough, but nothing so crazy that I'm left looking like I've been in a fight.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
spanked me
11/30/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
I enjoy being spanked well enough (I'd rather be hit other places or with a flogger), but my boyfriend LOVES it.
11/30/2011
Contributor: bboy21 bboy21
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
I like do both be spanked and to spank
12/01/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
spank but not where its extremely painful
12/01/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
Hubby has similar hang ups. It took a really long time before he got comfortable spanking me and even longer for him to do it with any real pain and satisfaction. I love the strength he has and there is never a question of being injured. He's ... more
Sorry to hear he got so angry with you, I hope everything worked out well in the end
12/02/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
hehe we're just trying this out... and i kinda like it
12/02/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
Let me clarify... Spanked lightly yes... Spanked hard No... If you make it a punishment spanking and not a fun kinky naughty one I will probably rip out your trachea with my fingers and call you names
12/04/2011
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
I totally love a good spanking
12/04/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
I love it. Sometimes my husband doesn't wanna do it as hard as I want it sometimes though. If she asks, and keeps asking, do it for her! Love it, and she'll love, so you'll love it. Its great to see somebody really enjoying themselves
12/05/2011
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
love being spanked=)
12/05/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Let me clarify... Spanked lightly yes... Spanked hard No... If you make it a punishment spanking and not a fun kinky naughty one I will probably rip out your trachea with my fingers and call you names
remind me not to get you angry lol
12/05/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I don't like being spanked. I do, however, like having my ass slapped.

I don't know if most people consider there to be a difference, but I do.
Agreed. I don't mind a hard slap on each cheek, even maybe a few smacks, but I hate spanking.

It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.

He uses it strictly for punishment, because I do not enjoy it at all.
12/07/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i'm neutral. i like it to an extent, as in it's neat, but i never go asking for it.

or perhaps my big ass is just ALWAYS asking for it.
12/07/2011
Contributor: bobbyboy bobbyboy
I spank my girl for her
12/07/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by GoneBabyGone
Agreed. I don't mind a hard slap on each cheek, even maybe a few smacks, but I hate spanking.

It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.

He uses it strictly for ... more
My wife doesn't like it black and blue or anything, just a short term red
12/08/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I enjoy a good spanking, but I definitely like the flogger better!
12/08/2011
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like a little spanking.
08/24/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
I love to be spanked!
08/24/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Just finished making 4 paddles. Cant wait to let my partner try them out on me
08/26/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
Sigel struggled with this for a long time but when he saw how much I enjoy it he was able to rearrange his thinking. Now Arch was open to the idea from the beginning....but only if I return the favor! LOL
08/26/2012
Contributor: chikisses chikisses
My hubby thinks I'm a freak. I want spanked but he just doesn't take me seriously.
08/26/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
Girl here and I looooove it.
08/26/2012
Contributor: violets violets
I love getting spanked
08/26/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
spank away!
08/26/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
Spank away! lol.
08/26/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
I like to spank and be spanked
08/26/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
oh i am learning that i really love being spanked xD
08/26/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.

What I want to know is, ... more
Yeah, it's something that I've loved for a while now. Though I've been telling my mom to stop threatening to spank me, because I react to it differently now.
08/26/2012