Total newb, but which of these would be better to try out first if we are really only looking for restraint?

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Total newb, but which of these would be better to try out first if we are really only looking for restraint?

wrecklesswords wrecklesswords 10/17/2011

In the past I've had a boyfriend tie me up and such and it was fun, blindfold, etc. Now with my current girlfriend, she is really interested in me restraining her and dominating her. New territory for me, but I am very willing to do this for her and try. Plus, I do have a lot of fun when I do finally get my way with her.

So, I am wondering, for light restraint and just for trying out, which of these would be the best? I want honest answers and if you think I'm being silly, just tell me. And if you have something else to suggest other than these three items, then I would love love love to hear it. I do have a budget so I'd really rather not spend more than $30 on the product.

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wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'm really not certain if we want to get into much other than just light restraint, but I figured at least exploring it would be fun and we could better decide after playing around for a while.
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OhMy! OhMy!
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
I'm really not certain if we want to get into much other than just light restraint, but I figured at least exploring it would be fun and we could better decide after playing around for a while.
We are currently reviewing these under-bed restraints, and so far have had a blast with them
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You might also like this sling. It's versatile and makes things a little more hands-free!
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Obviously, these are a little more expensive, but you also get what you pay for. If you have any questions on either of these items, let us know!
10/17/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by OhMy!
We are currently reviewing these under-bed restraints, and so far have had a blast with them
link

You might also like this sling. It's versatile and makes things a little more hands-free!
link

Obviously, these are a little ...
Very true on the price thing! Thanks so much, I'll look into them
10/18/2011
OhMy! OhMy!
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
Very true on the price thing! Thanks so much, I'll look into them
The S&M bed bondage kit looks very similar to the underbed one we have. The difference will probably be in how comfortable the restraints are. Either way, it's still a fun concept to play with!
10/18/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by OhMy!
The S&M bed bondage kit looks very similar to the underbed one we have. The difference will probably be in how comfortable the restraints are. Either way, it's still a fun concept to play with!
It really is!

My ex once tried something similar with me. He had some bondage rope and he tied my wrists and slipped the rope UNDER the bed frame so it was similar. I did have a lot of fun with it. And my girlfriend has expressed that she wants me to control her and such, so I figure it would be a good start.
10/19/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
I think for a beginner either of those will be fine, especially because after getting into it more you will go for more serious ones I assume...
02/14/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I had the beginners bondage fantasy kit with my last domme and it worked well. Beware they need to be tied very well or they will come undone and I was able at times to pull hard enough for the velcro to give. Not ideal but a good inexpensive kit to play with. I would probably buy a more expensive set in the future but at as a first attempt I'd recommend them. One of the things I learned from them, as a sub, was how to be disciplined. If one came untied or the velcro gave, if I stayed still even without the restraint, or put my hand or foot immediately back where it was supposed to be I was rewarded. If I didn't, I was punished. This went a long way to teaching me to be very disciplined without restraints.
02/15/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Oh, the blindfold is less than worthless though. So if you want a blindfold, do yourself a favor and buy a different one and toss the one that comes with the kit.
02/15/2012
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