Trying to spice up the bedroom...

tweet420 tweet420 08/19/2012

my boyfriend isnt as much into the kinky side of sex as i am and i want to try and ease him into it so im curious on what would be like the best kits to start off on and any tips and hints to trying to get him in to the lifestyle (btw im sub and hes a dom)

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just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
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Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
08/19/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
Agreed...
08/19/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by tweet420
just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/19/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I guess I'd go with the Bondage basics restraint kit, although I'd probably just opt to buy things separately and make my own kit.
08/19/2012
Gdom Gdom
I voted for bondage basics over some of the others because intro-level/light bondage seems to me to be a bit easier to pull off (and a bit less intimidating to a newcomer) than intro-level/light pain play.
08/19/2012
Kissy Kissy
The basics kit looks good for starters. Never tried any, but that is what I would do if I choose out of these. Good luck
08/19/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't know - but I wish you luck. Just curious are you trying to make him the dom or sub?
08/20/2012
lineswecast lineswecast
Agreed on the bondage basics.
08/20/2012
Terri69 Terri69
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
L&P3040 L&P3040
I would go with the basics kit. The whip maybe a little intimdating to him.
08/20/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have lovers prisoner kit and something similar to the bondage basics. They are nice starter kits.
08/20/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by tweet420
just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
The bondage basics one
08/20/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
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Originally posted by tweet420
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the enchantress set I think would be a good way to lead him into more kinky practices because it would be a very gentle nudge and if it went well then you could pick up some more of the restraints/ropes/etc.
08/20/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Bondage basics kit
08/20/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I've read a lot of good reviews about the bondage basics kit.
08/20/2012
Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I voted the lovers prisoner kit because it isn't intimidating at all, comes with a small whip and the collar and cuffs are very soft and plush.
08/20/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
I would talk to him. Find out what he likes. BDSM isnt just bondage
08/20/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
Yes, and the material is the safest amongst the choices...
08/20/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Bondage basics
08/20/2012
raerae68 raerae68
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
brevado brevado
I don't think you can go wrong with any of those
08/20/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
the beginners bondage kit is great
08/20/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
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Originally posted by True Pleasures
I guess I'd go with the Bondage basics restraint kit, although I'd probably just opt to buy things separately and make my own kit.
Agreed. This would be a good "start" and you can always build your kit with different things that fit your taste.
08/20/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
Bondage basics.
08/20/2012
Do emu Do emu
Out of those, bondage basics.
08/20/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
Bondage basics is good, I like it.
08/21/2012
Danielle915 Danielle915
Bondage basics looks like a good set to start off with
08/22/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Ultimately, it makes more sense for him to decide so he'll take ownership of the toys.
08/23/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
I chose the enchantress ties, because if you're really easing him into it slowly and bit by bit (and good for you by the way--I think a lot of people get turned off by kink because they encounter a partner who is too aggressive about it, or lays ALL the cards out on the table at once), that set is the least threatening--it's pretty, it's feminine, it gives him a chance to tie you up and have his way with you...

Good luck!
08/23/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
No offense, but they all look rather cheap. You'd be better off, in my opinion, buying the items separately. You can get decent cuffs for <$20, a blindfold for $10 and some rope for another $10.
08/23/2012
amazon amazon
I think applied right, any will add spice!
08/23/2012
crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
Bondage basics restraint kit.
08/23/2012
itismedi itismedi
Bondage basics or you could just buy one or two things and then add as you go!
09/01/2012
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Enchantress Playful Ties (Blue)
09/01/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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I would choose the bondage basics kit
09/07/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Bondage basics seems like a solid kit.
09/07/2012
tortilla tortilla
keep it simple
09/11/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by tweet420
just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
Bondage Basics would be a good place to start.
09/12/2012
J5ive J5ive
Bondage basics restraint kit
09/13/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by tweet420
just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
Bondage basics restraint kit
03/14/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
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Originally posted by tweet420
just trying to get ideas feel free to leave comments also
all of these are nice but if you're trying to say it without REALLY saying it then the enchantress one is nice~
03/16/2013
nosrslylol nosrslylol
Bondage basics has very good reviews, I would go with that.
03/17/2013
Alyona Alyona
Bondage basics restraint kit
03/29/2013
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Zandrock
I would talk to him. Find out what he likes. BDSM isnt just bondage
Exactly, communication is definitely a huge factor.
03/29/2013
Bme Bme
If he is hesitant, I would get cuffs with velcro as they are less intimidating.
03/29/2013
Mhay64 Mhay64
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
No offense, but they all look rather cheap. You'd be better off, in my opinion, buying the items separately. You can get decent cuffs for <$20, a blindfold for $10 and some rope for another $10.
I totally agree!
03/29/2013
chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
I'd say lover's prisoner kit if you're trying not to scare him off. the cuffs are soft and non-threatening and it offers both restraint and sensation options to try out
04/15/2013
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