What are you into BDSM wise?

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What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I don't like anything "out of the ordinary" sex wise.
BlueVelvet , srexom
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Just silk ribbons, blind folds, very vanilla stuff.
hhh , LoooveMonkey , Modern^Spank^Anthem , MidnightStorm , Illusional , Ivanna , travelnurse , mr115393 , dks210 , Pandwhora , IvyFayette , kadelette , srexom , SaraBroughman , AliMc , karenm
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A little rope or cuffs, light restraints, maybe a spank here or there.
Alyxx , panthercat23 , misskittymeowxxx , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , Jesyra , Sera26 , Taylor , sugar&spikes , hhh , Love Perpetua , Charro , TheirPet , KiraCat , LoooveMonkey , MrsHouseWife , MidnightStorm , Illusional , rom323 , travelnurse , mr115393 , dks210 , Strider , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , SecretKinksters , Bethy Cassatt , IvyFayette , KissTheSkyBaby , M's boy , kadelette , bronzelotus , Ice1 , bettyboom , Mikemanz , AmethystQueen , AliMc , caramilk , GONE! , notxsorry , SydneyScreams , CaseyDeuce , dancingduo , clockwork451
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Spanking, lightcore.
Alyxx , panthercat23 , misskittymeowxxx , Jesyra , hhh , butts , Charro , TheirPet , KiraCat , Katzer , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Illusional , Nurse Katie , violets , travelnurse , dks210 , Strider , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Pandwhora , AimDriver , SecretKinksters , phoenixfire , Bethy Cassatt , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Ice1 , Mikemanz , SaraBroughman , AmethystQueen , XxFallenAngelxX , table38792 , AliMc , caramilk , GONE! , SydneyScreams , oneeyedoctopus , dancingduo , clockwork451
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Spanking, HARD. Turn my buttcheeks red!
Alyxx , misskittymeowxxx , - Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Sera26 , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , gsfanatic , geliebt , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , hall5885 , Apirka , MrsHouseWife , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Illusional , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , CaliGirl , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , damnbul12 , souris , Lacey- , dks210 , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Vanille , Kaleb , Incendiaire , Robespierrethecat , Beck , chicagobearsfan , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , Silverwinds , bettyboom , Gdom , SaraBroughman , A Good Girl , sinnerandsaint , gwenevieve , notxsorry , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , RTC , SydneyScreams , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Rope bondage/shibari
Alyxx , panthercat23 , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Taylor , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , gsfanatic , butts , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , KiraCat , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , LoooveMonkey , Katzer , hall5885 , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Illusional , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , CaliGirl , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , souris , tovehunter , mr115393 , dks210 , Strider , novanilla , RavenInChains , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Vanille , phoenixfire , Kaleb , IvyFayette , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , Silverwinds , SaucyxGirl , Gdom , A Good Girl , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , SydneyScreams , oneeyedoctopus , CaseyDeuce , dancingduo , clockwork451
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Suspension
Gracefire , butts , TheirPet , TheSinDoll , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , tovehunter , mr115393 , RavenInChains , kadelette , GONE! , clockwork451
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Leather restraints
Alyxx , - Kira - , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Taylor , padmeamidala , charletnarouh , gsfanatic , butts , geliebt , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , KiraCat , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Illusional , Nurse Katie , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , souris , tovehunter , mr115393 , Lacey- , dks210 , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Vanille , AimDriver , MK434 , SecretKinksters , phoenixfire , Kaleb , Bethy Cassatt , IvyFayette , Robespierrethecat , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , bronzelotus , Silverwinds , Ice1 , SaucyxGirl , AmethystQueen , table38792 , sinnerandsaint , GONE! , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , SydneyScreams , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Flogging, lightcore.
Alyxx , panthercat23 , misskittymeowxxx , Jesyra , Sera26 , hhh , geliebt , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , KiraCat , thePicklez , Apirka , MrsHouseWife , MidnightStorm , Nurse Katie , mdnght , Sparowfang , souris , tovehunter , Andrey2052 , Strider , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , AimDriver , SecretKinksters , Kaleb , Robespierrethecat , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Frankie , Silverwinds , bettyboom , SaraBroughman , AmethystQueen , A Good Girl , GONE! , LoneOokami , RTC , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Flogging, HARD.
Alyxx , - Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , TheSinDoll , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , tovehunter , Lacey- , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , RavenInChains , madgabi , Vanille , MK434 , phoenixfire , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , SaucyxGirl , BloodHound , Gdom , GONE! , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , SydneyScreams , clockwork451
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Cutting
Alyxx , Jesyra , padmeamidala , Gracefire , TheSinDoll , Katzer , Red Vinyl Kitty , RavenInChains , Beck , SaucyxGirl , gwenevieve , SydneyScreams
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Blood play
Alyxx , Jesyra , Gracefire , thePicklez , Katzer , Red Vinyl Kitty , Beck , SaucyxGirl , BloodHound , gwenevieve
10
Play piercing
Alyxx , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Gracefire , charletnarouh , Katzer , Sparowfang , BloodHound , GONE!
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Choking/breath control, light
Alyxx , - Kira - , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Taylor , sugar&spikes , padmeamidala , butts , geliebt , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , hall5885 , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Illusional , Nurse Katie , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , CaliGirl , Red Vinyl Kitty , souris , Lacey- , RavenInChains , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Kaleb , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Silverwinds , SaucyxGirl , bettyboom , Gdom , A Good Girl , sinnerandsaint , GONE! , notxsorry , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , RTC , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , oneeyedoctopus , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Choking/breath control, hard!
Jesyra , geliebt , tovehunter , RavenInChains , MK434 , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , BloodHound , gwenevieve , notxsorry , CaseyDeuce
12
Bruises
- Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Sera26 , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , hall5885 , Apirka , Zandrock , Illusional , Supervixen , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , souris , tovehunter , mr115393 , Lacey- , dks210 , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , Vanille , phoenixfire , Kaleb , Bethy Cassatt , Beck , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Frankie , Ice1 , bettyboom , Gdom , table38792 , sinnerandsaint , GONE! , gwenevieve , notxsorry , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , SydneyScreams , clockwork451
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Slapping
- Kira - , solitudinarian , padmeamidala , Gracefire , butts , geliebt , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , Katzer , Apirka , Zandrock , Nurse Katie , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , souris , tovehunter , Lacey- , dks210 , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , MK434 , Kaleb , Bethy Cassatt , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , SaucyxGirl , Gdom , table38792 , sinnerandsaint , gwenevieve , notxsorry , SydneyScreams , oneeyedoctopus , clockwork451
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Hitting
Gracefire , TheirPet , TheSinDoll , Zandrock , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , souris , tovehunter , mr115393 , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , Beck , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Gdom , gwenevieve , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , SydneyScreams , clockwork451
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Scratching
Alyxx , - Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , Sera26 , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , butts , geliebt , TheirPet , KiraCat , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , LoooveMonkey , Katzer , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , violets , Supervixen , Red Vinyl Kitty , mmmmm , souris , tovehunter , mr115393 , Lacey- , dks210 , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Pandwhora , Vanille , MK434 , Kaleb , Bethy Cassatt , Robespierrethecat , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , chicagobearsfan , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , bronzelotus , Silverwinds , Ice1 , SaucyxGirl , bettyboom , Gdom , table38792 , GONE! , gwenevieve , notxsorry , LoneOokami , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , SydneyScreams , dancingduo , clockwork451
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Sensory deprivation
Alyxx , panthercat23 , - Kira - , Jesyra , padmeamidala , charletnarouh , gsfanatic , Charro , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , TheSinDoll , Katzer , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Nurse Katie , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , tovehunter , mr115393 , Lacey- , dks210 , novanilla , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Vanille , phoenixfire , Kaleb , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , LavenderSkies , kadelette , Frankie , Silverwinds , table38792 , caramilk , GONE! , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , clockwork451
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Latex, light (stockings, tops, gloves, etc.)
Alyxx , Jesyra , Gracefire , butts , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , TheSinDoll , LoooveMonkey , Katzer , Zandrock , Nurse Katie , Sparowfang , tovehunter , mr115393 , dks210 , RavenInChains , SecretKinksters , phoenixfire , Kaleb , Bethy Cassatt , Robespierrethecat , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , caramilk , GONE! , SydneyScreams , dancingduo
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Latex, hard (masks, suits)
Gracefire , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , thePicklez , Kaleb , kinksters , SydneyScreams
7
Vacuum beds/extreme sensory deprivation
TheirPet , Zandrock , RavenInChains , kadelette
4
Body modifications, light (light piercings, tattoos, etc.)
Jesyra , Gracefire , butts , TheirPet , LoooveMonkey , Katzer , Zandrock , violets , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , tovehunter , phoenixfire , SaucyxGirl , bettyboom , SaraBroughman , caramilk , GONE! , gwenevieve , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , dancingduo
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Body modifications, hard (hard piercings, splitting, implants, etc.)
Gracefire , MrsandMrbunnysoffun
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Pet play
Alyxx , Taylor , sugar&spikes , padmeamidala , KyotoAngel , thePicklez , Zandrock , Supervixen , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , Strider , madgabi , Vanille , Kaleb , kadelette , Silverwinds , Ice1 , sinnerandsaint , GONE! , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , MrsandMrbunnysoffun
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Pony play
KyotoAngel , thePicklez , Zandrock , Red Vinyl Kitty , Strider , Kaleb , kadelette , MrsandMrbunnysoffun
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Humiliation
Alyxx , - Kira - , solitudinarian , padmeamidala , Gracefire , Charro , TheirPet , Apirka , Zandrock , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , souris , tovehunter , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , SecretKinksters , Kaleb , Beck , chicagobearsfan , kadelette , Frankie , SaucyxGirl , Gdom , A Good Girl , table38792 , sinnerandsaint , caramilk , GONE! , gwenevieve , KrissyNovacaine , SydneyScreams , oneeyedoctopus , CaseyDeuce
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Sounding
butts , Katzer , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , A Good Girl
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Stretching (anally or vaginally)
- Kira - , Jesyra , sugar&spikes , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Red Vinyl Kitty , mr115393 , Strider , Beck , AmethystQueen , A Good Girl , KrissyNovacaine
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Clamps
panthercat23 , - Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , gsfanatic , KyotoAngel , KiraCat , TheSinDoll , Katzer , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , rom323 , Supervixen , mdnght , CaliGirl , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , souris , mr115393 , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , RavenInChains , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , SecretKinksters , Kaleb , Robespierrethecat , Beck , KissTheSkyBaby , kadelette , Ice1 , Gdom , A Good Girl , sinnerandsaint , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , RTC , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , clockwork451
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E-stim/violet wands/etc.
Alyxx , - Kira - , Taylor , Gracefire , TheirPet , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , mr115393 , Strider , RavenInChains , madgabi , Kaleb , Beck , kadelette , Frankie , AmethystQueen , A Good Girl , caramilk , GONE! , SydneyScreams
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CBT (cock and ball torture)
Gracefire , Katzer , Apirka , Zandrock , Strider , SecretKinksters , kadelette , SaucyxGirl , AmethystQueen , A Good Girl , SydneyScreams
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Whips/canes/etc.
Alyxx , misskittymeowxxx , - Kira - , solitudinarian , Jesyra , padmeamidala , Gracefire , charletnarouh , KyotoAngel , TheirPet , TheSinDoll , Katzer , Apirka , MidnightStorm , Zandrock , Illusional , Nurse Katie , violets , Supervixen , mdnght , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , mmmmm , souris , tovehunter , Lacey- , Strider , Fleurs Violettes , novanilla , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , madgabi , phoenixfire , Kaleb , Beck , kadelette , Ice1 , SaucyxGirl , Gdom , GONE! , gwenevieve , LoneOokami , KrissyNovacaine , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , SydneyScreams , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Branding/burning
charletnarouh , Katzer , Zandrock , Red Vinyl Kitty , Strider , RavenInChains , Beck , SaucyxGirl , MrsandMrbunnysoffun
9
Enema play
KyotoAngel , Zandrock , Red Vinyl Kitty , Frankie , AmethystQueen , oneeyedoctopus
6
Other
Taylor , Gracefire , geliebt , TheSinDoll , hall5885 , MidnightStorm , Red Vinyl Kitty , Sparowfang , travelnurse , dks210 , novanilla , RavenInChains , FrustratedFemme , hyacinthgirl , madgabi , Pandwhora , Grellopop , Kaleb , Beck , kadelette , Frankie , bronzelotus , SaucyxGirl , gwenevieve , RTC , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , SydneyScreams , CaseyDeuce , clockwork451
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Total votes: 1008 (109 voters)
Poll is closed
10/25/2012
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Alyxx Alyxx
I haven't had a chance to do all I listed, as my partners have been unwilling for some things like cutting, piercing, and blood play, but they are things I've enjoyed by myself. I'm up for being on the giving or receiving end of most of it, too. I'm definitely a switch.
10/25/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
I enjoy some, though most of it is more on the lighter side of things.
10/25/2012
Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We keep it light.
10/25/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Mostly hard impact play (spanking, hands, canes... whatever), bondage, clamps and humiliation. I also love consensual non-consent and fear play.

I'm curious about exploring blood play more, but my partner is hesitant. I don't get into more than some light pressure on my throat as far as choking goes.

Latex is not my thing. Leather however...
10/25/2012
Taylor Taylor
We do a lot of bondage, occasionally we will do some sensory play or use the violet wand or e-stim device. We do some ageplay and petplay too
10/25/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Cuffs, straps, spanking
10/25/2012
Gracefire Gracefire
Oh, gosh, there is so much! I really like hard play, whether I am giving or receiving. And, of course, rope ANYTHING.
10/25/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
i love impact play best. Hands, whips, canes, floggers, paddles, etc. Hard spanking is best, i like having bruises and welts and marks. i like wax a lot. i'm willing to try branding, pin branding (cell popping) and fireplay. i like knife play as sensation play but i'm hesitant about being cut. i'm hesitant, but curious, to explore needles and play piercing. Bondage, whether rope or cuffs, etc. is all good. i like cuffs the best usually but i'm open to other options. i'm interested in suspension but i have some old injuries and very weak wrists i have to be careful of. i love blindfolds and other sensory depravation. i'm interested in more extreme sensory depravation but haven't tried it.
10/25/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Impact play, tying my partner up, clamps, sensory play, and a few other fun odds and end
10/25/2012
geliebt geliebt
There's so much!! Plus a few that aren't on this list Predominantly I just like rough treatment in general
10/26/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
0_0'
...this is gonna take a while, and some of it I can't really get into much without my partner (down in FL).
*goes to check off stuff*
Seems like a fairly well rounded list, but you forgot medical play and the whole adult baby thing.
I'm not really into the adult baby thing at all but medical play is fun.

Would have checked off sounding but I still need to learn more about it before I get into it. I did dabble in it a little and liked what I tried, but I'd rather learn proper safety techniques before I do anything more.
10/27/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
Just a little bit here and there. I try to be safe as possible and due to my health I haven't been able to play as much as I used to.
10/27/2012
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I'm big into impact play.
I have a cutting, but I don't let just anyone do them.
I enjoy wax play. Flogging, Marks, H.O.M., God ...I dunno. It's easier to say what I don't like ....
10/29/2012
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Lighter things. lol
10/29/2012
Katzer Katzer
I enjoy a lot of things as the one giving, some I still want to try. I would say it would be more a medium level than light or hard.
10/29/2012
Apirka Apirka
I like spanking (light or hard), flogging (same), caning, whipping, humiliation, sensory dep., restraint in any form, CBT, bruises, hitting, slapping, scratching.... though I must say that I prefer to perform most of that on willing victims
10/30/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Pretty much everything other than blood play and permanent piercings. Have not gotten to try it all yet
10/30/2012
Illusional Illusional
Maaaaaan, I need some sort of sex life.. BDSM.. something, dear Santa..
10/30/2012
butts butts
Quote:
Originally posted by KyotoAngel
0_0'
...this is gonna take a while, and some of it I can't really get into much without my partner (down in FL).
*goes to check off stuff*
Seems like a fairly well rounded list, but you forgot medical play and the whole adult baby ... More
Medical play! I knew I was forgetting a big one! And yeah, age play, I don't really consider that BDSM (does anyone?), I mean if I wanted to get into some of the less common BDSMish fetishes I could include crushing, snuff, inflation, gore, amputations/amputees, micro/macro play, vore (of all sorts), various torture other than CBT (foot, breast, etc.) and a ton of other stuff. I just tried to include some of the more common ones.
10/30/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
I like a lot, and am interested in trying more.
10/30/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
Medical play! I knew I was forgetting a big one! And yeah, age play, I don't really consider that BDSM (does anyone?), I mean if I wanted to get into some of the less common BDSMish fetishes I could include crushing, snuff, inflation, gore, ... More
I do consider Age Play to be a part of BDSM, because it often has a D/s dynamic that goes along with it.
11/01/2012
Sparowfang Sparowfang
Little bit of everything nearly...especially spanking and flogging!
11/02/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
More on the lighter end, pull my hair!!
11/02/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
Spanking, HARD. Turn my buttcheeks red!.
11/02/2012
tovehunter tovehunter
I'm pretty varied and my sex is never very vanilla anymore, but mainly I'm into rope (I LIVE FOR suspension) and breath play.
11/04/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
I am curious about suspension...hmmm...
11/04/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Flogging, lightcore.
11/04/2012
dks210 dks210
We're pretty moderate at this point: cuffs, rope, candle wax, slapping, spanking, blindfolds, ball gag, etc. Lots of bondage, and light to moderate pain.
11/06/2012
novanilla novanilla
I like a decent amount of this stuff. I'm a switch so I'll give or receive.
12/15/2012
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