Which tools are nice and gentle for someone just getting into flogging/spanking?

Kaleb Kaleb 05/28/2012

Bit of a newbie, just wanted some opinions on the tools I've seen here. If you prefer something I didn't list, tell me in the comments!

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Kaleb Kaleb
I'd like some input, very new. I'd like something with a sting but won't reduce me to man-tears...
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kendra30752 , Master DarkWolf , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , DreamWolf , GONE! , ksparkles16 , darthkitt3n , PropertyOfPotter , SilverMinxxx , M.O.'s Girl , Stinkytofu10 , Jon S , cheesewizz , Hallmar82 , unfulfilled , MistressDandelion , Elnoa , treefrog88 , comatose-kitty , sktb0007 , Allison.Wilder , solitudinarian , Do emu , Terri69 , Sauceboss , MidnightStorm , potstickers , sexydelphia , sexxxkitten , HannahPanda , hhh
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BlooJay
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kendra30752 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast
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kendra30752 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , M.O.'s Girl , Dixiemomma , solitudinarian
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Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , GONE! , darthkitt3n , SilverMinxxx , M.O.'s Girl , padmeamidala , Beck , elli , sweetiejo , unfulfilled , MistressDandelion , Elnoa , Allison.Wilder , mpfm , brevado , solitudinarian , pokefan15 , dv8 , potstickers , sexydelphia , hhh
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darthkitt3n
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Total votes: 62 (41 voters)
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kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaleb
I'd like some input, very new. I'd like something with a sting but won't reduce me to man-tears...
Most of those look plenty gentle enough, some even look more like SUPER gentle. For someone who DOES NOT incorporate actual pain, but only a good sting into their play, we tend to prefer rubber. I don't know why, but it works for me. I guess because you can slap pretty hard and not have to worry about accidentally causing real pain to the other person. We like the rubber the most. The tickler thing with a rubber whip on the end and a feather puff on one end is nice and fun, but really cheapish and won't last or produce much of an effect. The tickler end is fun for tickling or running across the back/stomach to relax your partner. It works for both teasing and relaxing, but it's really not worth the money. I'd prefer having a good feather tickler that's larger and a whip that's larger rather than a tiny two-in-one.

The paddles aren't bad either. I don't do fur, but some have faux fur--but you have to be SURE it's truly faux--and those harldy cause real pain.

A crop... I don't know about. I get the impression that those are more for people who are truly into the pain part and so we've never bought one for sexual purposes.
05/28/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
FFS and Fur line.
05/28/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
FFS and Fur line.
Yup, especially Fur line looks good, W/we have FFS and it is somewhat floppy... ^^
05/28/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'd get the first paddle
05/29/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Feather crop
05/29/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Kaleb
I'd like some input, very new. I'd like something with a sting but won't reduce me to man-tears...
Even though Sex and Mischief red rope flogger is made for beginners, it's not very good quality wise. I would go with something slightly better made, but still soft. Fetish Fantasy Series velvet lover's paddle seems like a good choice.
05/29/2012
sweetiejo sweetiejo
I voted for the Fur Lined Paddle, because I have one and i love it it's very gentle for a begginer.
05/29/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It depends a lot on your personal style but the fur lined paddle or lover's paddle are great for beginners.
05/29/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
The lovers paddle and the fur lined paddle look good for beginners. I haven't tried any of those listed. Always make sure to not swing with all your might when playing with any paddle b/c that does help.
05/29/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
i say velvet lover's paddle
05/30/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
the rope flogger would give a nice dull thud without the stingy effect
05/30/2012
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I say anything with a lining will help for the first few times. Maybe get one with a lining and one without? Alternate between the two?
05/30/2012
mpfm mpfm
I like the fur paddles. I'm also a fan of this lelo whip.
05/30/2012
brevado brevado
It's all in how they're "applied"
05/30/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaleb
I'd like some input, very new. I'd like something with a sting but won't reduce me to man-tears...
I'd go with the velvet one if you're looking for something low on the pain scale. I guess that or the fur-lined one.
05/30/2012
Sauceboss Sauceboss
velvet lovers paddle.
05/30/2012
alayamae alayamae
Fetish Fantasy Series velvet lover's paddle
05/30/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
The velvet paddle!
06/19/2012
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