My birthday is on the 4th and... I'm doing nothing special. In fact, I'll be spending the 3rd and 4th pretty much in the kitchen most of the time.
Going to be making cinnamon rolls, lasagna, Italian bread, banana cream pie cupcakes, all from scratch. Should be delicious!
I really enjoy cooking, so, I have no major beef with making my own dinner and celebratory (cup)cake.
Otherwise, I don't think we're planning anything. What sucks about having an April birthday is that the weather is so iffy in most places. Here in the northwest, it's been rainy and cloudy pretty much every day for the past two weeks. Dunno what's going to happen, weatherwise, on my birthday.