Our relationship started out as bedroom kink with a bit of routine outside the bedroom. We had kinky sex all the time, tried bondage and spanking first and then moved to other fun things. A lot of what I did outside the bedroom was kinky sex in nature too. Wearing butt plugs or ben wa balls while at work, semi-public flashing and masturbation, taking naughty pictures, etc were a lot of what we did. Quickly though we realized that we wanted more and as we learned and grew with each other and in the community we decided we’d give 24/7 D/s a shot.
Nothing is wrong with a bit of bedroom kink and I encourage people to start there whenever I give advice. You never know where your true intentions lie, but kinky play is always a fresh new adventure that could lead to more.
What is it about bedroom kink that is appealing, do you think?