EdenKink - Pet Play - January 26th, 2012 @ 7pm ET

wrmbreze wrmbreze
This is very interesting to me. Nice to see what other people like.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by Jul!a
That's a really sweet story actually.

Can I ask what difference an O ring versus a D ring makes with collars? I've never put much thought into it before, so it seems interesting to me that your collar would have both.
The D Ring holds the O ring in such a way that when it falls off the collar, it is in a flatter position, if that makes sense to you. D-rings typically are useful because they lay flat against the skin, so they are more comfortable than an O ring if something is skin tight. I usually see D rings on leather collars or other materials on their own, and they provide a place for the O ring to hang off of.

When you attach restraints to someone, you usually attach it to their O ring. Though, it varies between restraints.
01/26/2012
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
That is an awesome way to put it! It is so frustrating sometimes to want to talk sometimes and be unable to say what you need to. I think that is part of the fun. I know Master likes to watch me and my "kitty charades!"
Oh yes. Non-verbal communication is a big thing for me. Honestly, I'm so good at reading the body language of real animals and mimicking it, that people I know swear I can talk to them. (which is sorta what I'm doing, really. It confuses everyone when I translate for my cat.)
01/26/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
The D Ring holds the O ring in such a way that when it falls off the collar, it is in a flatter position, if that makes sense to you. D-rings typically are useful because they lay flat against the skin, so they are more comfortable than an O ring if ... More
Thank you, that actually clears it up a lot for me.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by winterseve
I work for Petco! My kitty side takes over sometimes when I see all the shiny pretty collars and feather toys. OMG. Sometimes I lose myself when stocking and playing with the feathers and other kitty toys. I have a collar that my husband will put ... More
That is cute. I like how your husband uses a collar to put on you when it's OK for you to be a pet. It's a good symbol.

I almost hate going into Pet Co anymore, because I want everything in the toy's section! lol.
01/26/2012
Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Oh yes. Non-verbal communication is a big thing for me. Honestly, I'm so good at reading the body language of real animals and mimicking it, that people I know swear I can talk to them. (which is sorta what I'm doing, really. It confuses ... More
HAHA!! Me too!!! My boyfriend swears I have conversations with my snakes because I know them so well! Glad I'm not the only one!!
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Thank you, that actually clears it up a lot for me.
I'm glad! I wasn't sure I was explaining it right. It's one of those things which is easier to show than tell.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Oh yes. Non-verbal communication is a big thing for me. Honestly, I'm so good at reading the body language of real animals and mimicking it, that people I know swear I can talk to them. (which is sorta what I'm doing, really. It confuses ... More
That's a really cool talent!
01/26/2012
November November
I hope this doesn't sound like a stupid question, but AndroAngel mentioned walking on two legs while in pet mode,do you walk on two legs or crawl on four when in kitty mode?
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Another question for those of you who are into pet play already:

How do you usually go about getting things started? Which one of you decides it is time for pet play? I always love hearing how other relationships do things.
01/26/2012
winterseve winterseve
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
That is cute. I like how your husband uses a collar to put on you when it's OK for you to be a pet. It's a good symbol.

I almost hate going into Pet Co anymore, because I want everything in the toy's section! lol.
Thanks. The collar thing works well because we don't have a strict D/s or Master/slave relationship. I tend to identify as a switch. But it works to separate our pet play and keep me as a sub in those situations. I totally have a hard time. Especially because I get a discount and know when things go on sale.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by November
I hope this doesn't sound like a stupid question, but AndroAngel mentioned walking on two legs while in pet mode,do you walk on two legs or crawl on four when in kitty mode?
Everyone does things differently, but I am only allowed to crawl in pet mode. I actually crawl around the house a lot anyway. Pet mode, or not.
01/26/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I'm glad! I wasn't sure I was explaining it right. It's one of those things which is easier to show than tell.
I can definitely believe that. Now I just need to make sure somehow that that information stays in my memory banks! lol
01/26/2012
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Another question for those of you who are into pet play already:

How do you usually go about getting things started? Which one of you decides it is time for pet play? I always love hearing how other relationships do things.
We usually discuss things. (Or else I get out my collar and stare at him sadly until he gives in and puts it on me.) It tends to be an almost natural fall into the headspace.
01/26/2012
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Everyone does things differently, but I am only allowed to crawl in pet mode. I actually crawl around the house a lot anyway. Pet mode, or not.
Hmm, that's very interesting. Crawling can be lots of fun but I don't know if I could do it all the time lol.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by winterseve
Thanks. The collar thing works well because we don't have a strict D/s or Master/slave relationship. I tend to identify as a switch. But it works to separate our pet play and keep me as a sub in those situations. I totally have a hard time. ... More
That would be impossible for me! I envy your self-control.

Sometimes Master will have me kneel or sit in pet beds right in the pet store to "test them out" before we buy them. If he likes one, we buy it, but there's always the inevitable one or two people who walk buy and think we're horsing around. Nope. Not horsing. Kitty-ing. lol.
01/26/2012
winterseve winterseve
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Another question for those of you who are into pet play already:

How do you usually go about getting things started? Which one of you decides it is time for pet play? I always love hearing how other relationships do things.
I mew or meow and if he does it back it's kind of a go ahead. If I nip or bat at him and he plays along he'll either get my collar or tell me it's ok and pet me. Usually I'm the one to initiate. Sometimes he'll just start petting me and I'll slip into a pet mode and he'll stop petting or playing if he doesn't want to continue our play. But same as most people, if things get sexual I stop in pet mode immediately.
01/26/2012
Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
RVK, is there anything you and your owner do that you've never heard of anyone else doing with regard to pet play? Or maybe something you heard of that you guys would never try? Aside from separating sex and impact play from pet play.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
We usually discuss things. (Or else I get out my collar and stare at him sadly until he gives in and puts it on me.) It tends to be an almost natural fall into the headspace.
Aww, I can just picture you staring at him all cute and sadly until he puts it on you.
01/26/2012
Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
We usually discuss things. (Or else I get out my collar and stare at him sadly until he gives in and puts it on me.) It tends to be an almost natural fall into the headspace.
awwwwww! sweet! I usually sit on the floor by his legs and hold my collar up with that pitiful "I promise to be good look" or there's the verbal ques of "good pet" or more likely "No! BAD pet!"
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by Kitka
Hmm, that's very interesting. Crawling can be lots of fun but I don't know if I could do it all the time lol.
I don't do it 24/7 (I have a bum wrist!), but I definitely crawl at least a couple times a day.
01/26/2012
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I don't do it 24/7 (I have a bum wrist!), but I definitely crawl at least a couple times a day.
Ah hehe gotcha!
01/26/2012
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Yep, he can be stubborn about giving in, though.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
RVK, is there anything you and your owner do that you've never heard of anyone else doing with regard to pet play? Or maybe something you heard of that you guys would never try? Aside from separating sex and impact play from pet play.
That is a tough one.

I think the grooming is something that Master and me do that I've never *heard* other people saying that they do. I'm sure that others do it, but I haven't heard of it like Master and me.

Master will gag me, put my kitty mittens on, and buckle wrist cuffs on over them so I can't get them off (not that I'd try!). Then, he'll usually put my kitty ears on and cuff my ankles, and then cuff me in an awkward position. (For example, with my wrists and feet clipped together in front, though is changes.) Then he will shave the back of my head, rub my paws, clean my ears, clip all my nails, and generally do the same things he does for our regular cats.

I don't think there are things others do that we wouldn't, truthfully. There's a lot out there, and while there are some things which may not appeal to us at the moment, our tastes change. In the beginning of our relationship, I don't think either of us thought we'd be doing the things we do now!
01/26/2012
winterseve winterseve
For someone who doesn't act as a cat or dog, what special animal behaviors do you exhibit in your chosen animal mindsets? Anyone here into ponyplay?
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by Sapphire Pet
awwwwww! sweet! I usually sit on the floor by his legs and hold my collar up with that pitiful "I promise to be good look" or there's the verbal ques of "good pet" or more likely "No! BAD pet!"
I don't know why, but "NO! BAD pet!" makes me smile.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by winterseve
For someone who doesn't act as a cat or dog, what special animal behaviors do you exhibit in your chosen animal mindsets? Anyone here into ponyplay?
We do pony play! I actually had the opportunity for the first time this past July to pull Master around in a cart! Carts are expensive and bulky, so we don't own one, but there was one at a local kink convention. It was awesome.

I tend to do more show than riding pony things, because of my bum wrist, but I was initially trained as a riding pony.
01/26/2012
November November
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
That is a tough one.

I think the grooming is something that Master and me do that I've never *heard* other people saying that they do. I'm sure that others do it, but I haven't heard of it like Master and me.

Master ... More
You mentioned that he shaves the back of your head, do you keep it shaved all the time. From your picture, it looks like you have long hair pulled back.
01/26/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Just wanted to mention, I do not know many switches in person, so it is very cool to me to hear all your switch-y perspectives.
01/26/2012
Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I don't know why, but "NO! BAD pet!" makes me smile.
My screen name most places is NoNoBadPet. I tend to like "No! Bad pet!" too cause it means I'm fixin to be put in my place! LOL
01/26/2012
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