#Workshop - October 3rd @ 8pm EST: Prostate massage 101

ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
10/03/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Before we delve into the how’s, I think it is best to look into the whys. For this we need to understand what the prostate is and how it functions. Taken from Wikipedia “The prostate (from Greek - prostates, literally "one who stands ... More
Very nice easy way to put it.
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
precisely! and you can throw a blanket over it and pretend it's some fung shui new age furniture... for the gullible.
Hahaha, nice. I just leave mine out right now. The flip ramp gets used as an ottoman and both wedges get used as backrests.
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
So far so good!
10/03/2011
jroho jroho
"Wringing the sponge" is my new euphemism for prostate massage.
10/03/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
totally! nice visualization you bring up!
10/03/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
Yup!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Very nice easy way to put it.
Overly simplified, but the technical stuff just makes my head spin.
10/03/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
Very much so. Just wish that my mother wasn't stopping over in 5 minutes so I could actually participate more.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by jroho
"Wringing the sponge" is my new euphemism for prostate massage.
Works, eh?

Nice to see you.
10/03/2011
Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So far, so good?
Awesome!

Another 'why' is "it feels good," of course, but that was all interesting and I had only known the basics of that, not the in-depth analysis. Thanks!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Lucky21
Very much so. Just wish that my mother wasn't stopping over in 5 minutes so I could actually participate more.
No worries, come back when you can. Be here for awhile and I can send it to you if you want.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
OK, so now that we know the function it’s time to talk about the how. We are going to look at this from the anal beginner side of things. I am assuming that most of you have at least touched your/his anus and probably put a finger or two in there before. I am also going to assume that you have talked with your partner, for the gals wanting to do this to your man, and you both feel comfortable with the idea of exploring this stimulating experience. Remember that communication is a HUGE key to your success.

Let’s start with some basics shall we? Take a shower and clean up, eh? If you are worried about the Poo factor, make sure you have a BM beforehand. The rectum does not store feces; it is more of a staging area so most of the time it is empty. Still, if your worried, an anal douche will help to clean the rectum out. Enemas’ are not really needed, plus with an enema it will take a long time for all the stuff to clear the system. I have a shower attachment that works well but you can get one of the bulb style douche’s form EF or a Fleet enema from the drug store. Empty the contents out and just use warm water. Do this about an hour before hand, this allows the rectum’s natural mucous a chance to recoat the area. The mucous helps to protect the tissues. This also applies to any kind of anal play, whether with toys or a penis.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Lucky21
Very much so. Just wish that my mother wasn't stopping over in 5 minutes so I could actually participate more.
No worries, come back when you can. Be here for awhile and I can send it to you if you want.

Edit: oh nice one here.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Antipova
Awesome!

Another 'why' is "it feels good," of course, but that was all interesting and I had only known the basics of that, not the in-depth analysis. Thanks!
I try.
10/03/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
OK, so now that we know the function it’s time to talk about the how. We are going to look at this from the anal beginner side of things. I am assuming that most of you have at least touched your/his anus and probably put a finger or two in there ... More
My boy poops like 4 times a day. hahaha. Im always worried
10/03/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
No worries, come back when you can. Be here for awhile and I can send it to you if you want.

Edit: oh nice one here.
Thanks Tim. I'm gonna tune in as much as I can, and if I need to I'll hit you up with a message later.
10/03/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
My boy poops like 4 times a day. hahaha. Im always worried
At least he's regular. As far as I know, mine only goes once a day, if that. Sometimes I joke that mine poops potatoes because he won't eat stuff with fiber. Lots of meat, cheese, peanut butter..
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
My boy poops like 4 times a day. hahaha. Im always worried
Wow, really? I am lucky to go once or twice. lol

Maybe feed him a bunch of cheese the morning of?
10/03/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Wow, really? I am lucky to go once or twice. lol

Maybe feed him a bunch of cheese the morning of?
I dont think that would help. Hes a machine.

I go once every other day if im lucky. He always makes funny of me.
10/03/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Ill have to wait till after he poops than make him jump int he shower.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Next up let’s talk about lube. USE IT! (No, spit does not work so don’t even think about it.) And don’t be shy about it. Pour it on and keep the bottle handy in case you need more. Guys do not be afraid to let your partner know you need more; there is not any natural lube in there, you are the supplier. One thing that will ruin the fun is pain; lube will go a long way in preventing that. What kind you use is up to you, I like a water based lube like Maximus. Silicone and oil based lubes will last longer but clean up may be harder. The key here is to use it.

Another good idea is a rubber/latex type glove. This helps with clean up and also protects the delicate anus/rectum from finger nails. Ladies, if you have long nails you can place a cotton ball in the fingers of the glove to keep the nails from poking through.
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Antipova
Awesome!

Another 'why' is "it feels good," of course, but that was all interesting and I had only known the basics of that, not the in-depth analysis. Thanks!
That's about all I was able to give my husband too. "It'll feel good! I promise!"
10/03/2011
Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Wow, really? I am lucky to go once or twice. lol

Maybe feed him a bunch of cheese the morning of?
Wow, I missed the commode emoticon.
10/03/2011
Ansley Ansley
Late to the party! Shame on me! After I bragged about always being on time!! (And I totally typed top instead of time, first.)
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Wow, really? I am lucky to go once or twice. lol

Maybe feed him a bunch of cheese the morning of?
I am bad and don't keep track. I go when I need to
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Ansley
Late to the party! Shame on me! After I bragged about always being on time!! (And I totally typed top instead of time, first.)
Way to be late lady!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Antipova
Wow, I missed the commode emoticon.
I have been waiting for an occasion to use it, fit pretty good, eh?
10/03/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Next up let’s talk about lube. USE IT! (No, spit does not work so don’t even think about it.) And don’t be shy about it. Pour it on and keep the bottle handy in case you need more. Guys do not be afraid to let your partner know you need more; there ... More
Good advice! I have long nails, and have to file them down for whenever I do anal play with hubby. I'm definitely using cotton balls next time. Having two fingers with short nails and the rest long is a little weird, if not somewhat suspicious.
10/03/2011
Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Next up let’s talk about lube. USE IT! (No, spit does not work so don’t even think about it.) And don’t be shy about it. Pour it on and keep the bottle handy in case you need more. Guys do not be afraid to let your partner know you need more; there ... More
Question:

Spit has always been good enough for me, even for pretty vigorous anal sex. Am I just tougher than average, or is it because I had been 'practicing' for a few years before I had a partner, or what's up with it, in general?
10/03/2011
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