I own one of these beauties! I absolutely love it. As opposed to some other glass toys I have used the handle is ideal. The shaft of this may be a bit small but again it is a G-Spot dildo. My boyfriend often uses it on me while giving me oral, and let me tell you the first time he did I about went through the roof!!! Its also great as far as temperature goes, wash it in some warm water before use and it holds the heat great or run under some cold water to cool it off, the temp change while inside from the cold to warm it a great sensation. We have also found it works very nice to find his G-spot to and massage the prostate. Such an easy clean up, and comes with a very nice pouch to keep it in. I would would recommend to anyone thinking about buying it!!! Great product!!!