#ExpressLove - Reward Your White Knight!

Ansley Ansley


It's not always easy to reward the men in our lives. They turn down compliments and side-step answering questions about what they'd like for their birthdays or they quip "a threesome, the same thing I've asked for every time you ask me what I want".



It's a safe bet that the latter falls on deaf ears and earns a brief glare or a slap on the arm and a "you don't know who you're messin' with" cackle. Usually. There are exceptions to every rule, of course!

Ultimately, men want to be wanted and they want to be shown they're needed, and often it's enough for them. But, why not go that extra mile and pick up a nice sleeve or a fun prostate toy to amp up the levels of excitement in the bedroom? Surely, any gesture would be very appreciated. Men love it when women initiate new things in the bedroom!

Ladies, how do you reward your white knight? Do you go out of your way to make things fun and exciting in the bedroom? Do you want to go out of your way to make things fun in the bedroom?

Men, how have the women in your life rewarded you? Does she surprise you with new toys for you and her or are you the one buying them for the bedroom?

And we're offering 25% off on all* men's toys to help you reward your White Knight ladies! *exclusions apply
05/01/2012
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Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I don't want to get all weird or anything,

but I'm slightly offended by this.

It's kind of a stereotype thing and a little insulting to men.
05/01/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
How fun! Nothing wrong with giving us our due.

My wife has never bought me any toys, I am not sure she would know where to start. lol She does like to surprise me from time to time with wearing lingerie and instigating play time. She even woke me up in the middle of the night for sex, something I always suggest but she does not feel right about it. Bonus!

Honestly though, I am just happy she keeps me around.
05/01/2012
indiglo indiglo
He has no interest currently in the types of toys available for men. But, I do try to treat him right and keep him happy.

We recently (the past month or so) started having "date night" once a week. We do different things, from watching steamy movies to playing strip board games. Keeps things playful and fun for both of us, I think! I also like to give him plenty of say in the lingerie assignments/purchases I get from Eden, with an occasional surprise thrown in just for fun from time to time.
05/01/2012
Beezlebud Beezlebud
I agree that those are some monster stereotypes posted above about men and women but the questions are good.

I was with someone for 10 years married 6 of those years and never was rewarded for my efforts. Scoff if you must ladies but in 10 years never once was I given a Birthday Present, Christmas Present, or Fathers day gift not made by my son (she had birthday week btw). Not to mention the lack of reciprocation in the bedroom. I've got just as many stories of giving my girl head and her rolling over and passing out without even a thank you, as you women do. But that's why you call em X's.

Honestly, I feel the majority of women have the attitude of "well I let him fuck me that should be enough, or I gave him me what else could he want?". I've heard women talk about sex like it's a chore or a tool to get some material thing but hopefully I've just been listening to the wrong women.
05/01/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Beezlebud
I agree that those are some monster stereotypes posted above about men and women but the questions are good.

I was with someone for 10 years married 6 of those years and never was rewarded for my efforts. Scoff if you must ladies but in 10 ... More
The comment about the threesome is a joke.

Honestly, I feel the majority of women have the attitude of "well I let him fuck me that should be enough, or I gave him me what else could he want?". I've heard women talk about sex like it's a chore or a tool to get some material thing but hopefully I've just been listening to the wrong women.

This is a stereotype.
05/01/2012
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
The comment about the threesome is a joke.

Honestly, I feel the majority of women have the attitude of "well I let him fuck me that should be enough, or I gave him me what else could he want?". I've heard women talk about sex ... More
I think that's more of an opinion.

But like I said, I'm really not trying to be confrontational or bitchy. I was just saying.
05/01/2012
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
. . .



I'm sorry for causing such a disturbance here.
05/01/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
*sniffs thread*
*sees some trouble*

*runs away!*


no, really, it was a cute idea, but could've been more all-inclusive in the execution.

personally i'm not offended, but that's just me!

05/01/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
It's not always easy to reward the men in our lives. They turn down compliments and side-step answering questions about what they'd like for their birthdays or they quip "a threesome, the same thing I've asked for every time you ask ... More
Ok, so I have recently come to the realization that I'm very selfish in bed....we are going to start working on this lol
05/02/2012
Ansley Ansley
I can understand not appreciating my choice of wording, that's fine. Please know that I would never intentionally offend anyone, and I certainly would never go out of my way to do so.

That being said, every man I've ever been with when asked how he'd like to be pampered has quipped "a threesome would be nice". Maybe I just know a lot of really horny guys who've never had that experience. (I personally think they're overrated and that's why I joke about it.)
05/02/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Beezlebud
I agree that those are some monster stereotypes posted above about men and women but the questions are good.

I was with someone for 10 years married 6 of those years and never was rewarded for my efforts. Scoff if you must ladies but in 10 ... More
WOW I am so sorry to hear that! You have to assume that if there are stories about men doing these things there must be women who do the same...we are humans after all.
You are right to call her -ex I can't imagine not giving a gift to my guys...they work so hard for me! Sigel appreciates it so damn much because he honestly doesn't believe he deserves nice things. We have to wrestle him down to get him anything and forget trying to reciprocate sexually. Don't get me wrong I still do but it's a challenge.
05/02/2012
SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
Nice my husband has a hard time showing his sexual side lol

weird I know guys are usually all about it but throwing sex toys in our lives lately has been spicing it up

05/07/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
How do i reward my Hubby? Oh my, that is a big question *smiles, blushes*

I am the one usally buying our toys. And now that I've gotten over my fears of anal play, I reward him with toys for him and for me. Since I got the Big Boy 1 for him and I saw how excited it made him, I try to always put one or two items in my order for him. It is always a surprise when he open our EF packages. He loves it.

It is my way of saying I want to please you also, I don't want me to be the only one totally loop legged. Plus after 17 yrs of marriage a little spice is great!!!
05/07/2012
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