Is it more important to feel loved, or pleasured?

Hummingbird Hummingbird
I knw it's possible to have one without the other but I prefer both.
03/16/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
To feel loved. I can pleasure myself.
03/18/2013
jr2012 jr2012
absolutely loved. I always tell my partner that if his penis magically disappeared, I would be completely fine with that as long as I can still get hugs!
03/29/2013
edeneve edeneve
well now 3 month into the relationship, I'd like to be adored.
03/30/2013
Forever Hers! Forever Hers!
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
When you feel loved--the pleasure follows. If it is only pleasured, it is comparable to fast food--you are full and it was gratifying, but does not last.
Great analogy!Couldn't have said it better.
04/09/2013
Forever Hers! Forever Hers!
Definitely in conjunction.
04/09/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
LOVED! but it's also nice to feel pleasured.
04/09/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Quote:
Originally posted by arilikewoah
A common question.
I honestly thought this was a joke. Love all the way. Pleasure comes from it. Pursuit of pleasure and only pleasure is not good form for relationships.
04/09/2013
Gary Gary
I think in life we need a balance of many things to keep us happy and sane. I would say of all the things in life... being truly loved is probably the hardest thing to attain however. I would also say that love can certainly make a lot of things seem less important.
04/09/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by arilikewoah
A common question.
Loved...Keep in mind pleasured is a lot of fun!
04/28/2013
peppermintgal peppermintgal
Loved.
08/24/2013
Pretties Pretties
I put both because I agree with those who've said if you're loved you are pleasured (since sexually pleasures wasn't specified).
08/24/2013
CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Both are important, but loved is the most important. I can easily please myself, but I need affection.
11/10/2013
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