Legitimate question - but do us a favor and don't use all caps. It's hard on the eyes. When every word is emphasized - they all have equal meaning.
Back to the point. There are many here @ EF that know a lot more than I do about anal issues. The first thing is that a lot of anal play can and should take place before you even consider anal sex.
I suggest going to the Anal section of the forum - there are dozens of threads with tons of practical advice.
Enjoy the journey.