My husband has gone to a few over the years. Usually while on a business trip entertaining male customers or during bachelor parties.
He says he enjoys them, but it isn't a huge deal.
A while ago I took a bath with salts, used my scented soap, then put on scented cream and spray. He came in the room and said, "Damn, Woman! You ever been backstage in a Titty Bar right before the girls go on? That's what this bathroom smells like."
No. I have never been backstage of of "Titty Bar" right before the girls go on. Maybe he has. Evidently.
I asked him if it was a good smell or not so good. He said it was nice, but kind of strong.
I went to The Sugar Shack once when I was about 19 or so. Naked men. It was years ago, and my friends and I got invited to an after party by some of the dancers. We said no. I always wondered what would have happened. It was fun, but not something I ever needed to experience again. I'm glad I did it, but it was a Once in a Lifetime thing.