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I am new to EdenFantasys and would like to know how to be a better community member. Especially after JR showed me that I was doing a couple things wrong. I have changed those, though. How do I become a great EF member?
Be polite and have fun! Comment on peoples reviews with actual comments (not just "thanks" but rather "great review! The pictures were really helpful. This seems like a really unique product, but I don't think that my partner would appreciate a closet sized dildo in our house.") Peruse the forums and have conversations, not just one word answers. Give your opinion and have meaningful discussions! And don't feel nervous to ask US questions, as well, be it about products, about sex, or for advice on your own personal problems.
One pointer is to do a quick forum search for the question you want to post and see if it's already been asked and answered. If something similar has been asked that hasn't answered your question, ask it more specifically. That way we don't have 14 forum posts asking what the difference between the Amethyst and the Bent Graduate is.
I see you already have a mentor, which is a great first step. You should be able to ask her if you have any questions about what is and is not appropriate. Points are awesome, but you shouldn't do things JUST for points (because we can tell), rather they should be a nice side effect to making friends and growing to be a part of Eden.