The first time this happened to me...

Katelyn Katelyn
I just had a date last night and we started kissing and whatnot. I realized that even though this girl is ridiculously hot I am just not attracted to her.
I was bored! This has never happened to me before and I wasn't quite sure how to get out of the situation,

Has this ever happened to you before?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a man and...
11
I am always turned on when things get heavy.
3
I sometimes get a bit bored when things get steamy.
3
This has happened to me once or twice.
8
I am a woman and....
24
I always get hot when things start going down.
2
Sometimes I get a little bored when things get steamy.
15
This hasn't happened to me (bored during foreplay sexy time)
4
The ever-popular other.
2
Total votes: 72 (37 voters)
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01/14/2012
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PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Sorry to hear that happened to you. Maybe it will be better next time.
01/14/2012
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
That sucks quite a bit, but I've experienced this before. I go the brutally honest route and state that this is doing nothing for me and move on from there. I refuse to intentionally have a bad time in the sexual sense.
01/14/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
let's just be friends?
01/14/2012
js250 js250
If the chemistry is not there, it isn't going to work. Sorry, but true.
01/14/2012
FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I think it just depends on the person. Sometimes there's chemistry, sometimes there isn't. Sorry you had to deal with that. I get bored with people I don't know very well or like very much.
01/14/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
that sucks
01/14/2012
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Nothing to worry about, it happens! I agree, if there is no chemistry, why bother?! Plenty of other fish in the sea...
01/14/2012
Brandonn Brandonn
"let's just be friends?" that term is the kiss of death
01/14/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Yeah, if you're bored and it's the first time, things won't get much better
01/14/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
Yeah, I think I am just gonna write this one off lol. Just friends lol
01/17/2012
tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I just had a date last night and we started kissing and whatnot. I realized that even though this girl is ridiculously hot I am just not attracted to her.
I was bored! This has never happened to me before and I wasn't quite sure how to get out ... More
let's just be friends
02/27/2012
sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
I am a man and...
03/04/2013
Bme Bme
If there is noting there then it is a waste of both our time.
03/24/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
It's not that I get bored, but it's like all of a sudden I'm on the outside of the sexy bubble. The sexy bubble of where you're completely into it, everything is heightened, and your head is in the game. I hate when I'm outside the bubble, because I either have to work hard to get back into it, or I'm stuck going through the motions.
03/24/2013
Total posts: 15
Unique posters: 14