How long do you wait for an item to be restocked?

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How long do you wait for an item to be restocked?

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Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I often feel like I'm cheating if I buy a toy from another site. Of course I'm hopelessly monogamous in relationships too . I was wondering if other people feel the same way. How long do you wait for an item to be restocked before buying it somewhere else?

After waiting a while for fresh nipple clamps in blue, my boyfriend decided he could wait no more and got them somewhere else. I felt kind of bad, because I love EF and want to support them, but at the same time I love having my toy here, now.

Am I the only one who gets weirdly loyal like that?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I wait as long as it takes. I could never shop anywhere else!
48
If it is not back in stock after a couple weeks I will get it from somewhere esle.
22
I need my sex toys now! If it isn't here I get it immediately from somewhere else.
3
I'll wait a few days but not more than a week
It depends on the item (feel free to explain in comments)
44
Other
3
Total votes: 120 (101 voters)
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Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I don't usually buy my toys anywhere else besides Eden, so I will wait for a while. If it doesn't come back in stock then I will move on to something else on my wish list (there is plenty on there)
05/27/2011
Contributor: xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
It depends how badly I want the item. If I find it some where else for the same price or cheaper, and I want it bad enough, I'll get it some where else.
05/27/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I will wait until it comes back in stock. I am not in a rush most of the time for a order. So how ever long it takes.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
If it's the same price somewhere else, I'll usually just order it there.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
There have been many times I have waited a few weeks or a month and finally given up and bought elsewhere. I did breakdown and buy my Liberator Axis Hitachi elsewhere after waiting 3 months. I love Eden, but there are times when we cannot wait any longer and simply get frustrated and then we stray.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
If it's the same price somewhere else, I'll usually just order it there.
Same here. Depends on the price and if i want the item sooner rather than later.
05/28/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
I can usually wait , unless it's something I'm just dying to have
05/28/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
If Eden carries it, I'll wait as long as it takes. With the points and extra discounts here it's just a much better deal than buying from another site. So far I haven't run into any toy that I was so desperate to have that I bought it elsewhere.
05/28/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
there is always another toy worth getting
05/28/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm EXTREMELY impatient, so if it's a toy I MUST have, then I simply can't wait!
I prefer to buy all my toys here, but on the odd ocassion where a toy is out of stock or Eden hasn't gotten it in yet - I'll buy elsewhere.
But it's rare.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I think I tend to wait if it is just for me. But if it is something to try with my significant other, it is harder to wait. Plus it is likely he will just pay for it, so I'm not out the discounts and free gifts! (I only miss out on the points )
05/28/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
As long as it takes, and I'm waiting for a number of items right now.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I've become devoted to Eden. If EF doesn't carry it, I'm not getting it.
06/28/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I've become devoted to Eden. If EF doesn't carry it, I'm not getting it.
I completely agree! I'd feel bad buying anywhere else but from Eden. Haha.
06/28/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
My preferences are Eden and then my previous favorite site before discovering Eden. If Eden doesn't have something, I'd go to my second choice after a week or two.

Right now neither has the toy I really want, but I found it on three other sites I've never used before. I'll probably give it until the middle of next month and then get it from one of the new places.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
It depends. I do most of my purchases on Eden, but if the item I want is in stock elsewhere at an even better price due to a sale, then I'll buy it at that other store.
12/16/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I try to buy all my toys from Eden.
12/16/2011
Contributor: kz916 kz916
i wait as long as it takes.
01/24/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I will wait and wait and wait....
01/24/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I only buy my stuff at Eden. So I just wait.
01/24/2012
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
If I found it cheaper somewhere else I would get it there. I would feel bad, but I just don't have the money to spend.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
None of the ones that I have out-of-stock notices on are MUST HAVES for me, so I can wait as long as it takes.

If it was something I really, really wanted, I'm not sure - never been in that position.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
I'll usually just wait until it comes back into stock. Not because I feel like I'm cheating, but because I am a cheap-ass. There are only two places I *trust* to buy toys from, and eden is much cheaper. I also have a lot of stuff on my wishlist, so if one thing is out of stock, chances are there's something else that's in stock.
01/30/2012
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Quote:
Originally posted by Greenleaf
I'll usually just wait until it comes back into stock. Not because I feel like I'm cheating, but because I am a cheap-ass. There are only two places I *trust* to buy toys from, and eden is much cheaper. I also have a lot of stuff on my ... more
Yeah, I totally agree with you.
01/30/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Vegan Silk
I often feel like I'm cheating if I buy a toy from another site. Of course I'm hopelessly monogamous in relationships too . I was wondering if other people feel the same way. How long do you wait for an item to be restocked before buying ... more
Normally I do wait for EF and have waited for even a month before, but if they do nothing about restocking or updating me after a month, I see nothing wrong with going elsewhere!

I've actually been waiting for both Matryoshka and Zini Deux for way longer than one month! I sent a support ticket after waiting a couple weeks just because I'd planned to purchase them for a particular occasion. I got a reply saying they will restock it SOMETIME?! That was about a month ago. No idea if either will actually be restocked on this site, but I finally had to pay my bills and will wait until a later date to worry about buying them now. In the next week though, I'll buy elsewhere if neither are stocked. I wanted to at least have one before my partner's B-day which was today and that didn't happen.

I normally never get frustrated about waiting, but for such high priced toys I'd think they'd stock them more than once every couple of months. I've asked around and don't know anybody who's recently purchased either of the toys so I'm really unsure why they're even out of stock. Maybe it was a one time deal? Who knows!
02/16/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
I'll ask and then wait for it to restock. Usually nothing takes more than a few weeks to restock and I'm not that impatient.
03/29/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I've been waiting on a couple for over a month!
03/29/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Plenty of places to shop
03/29/2012
Contributor: Inappropriate Inappropriate
Sometimes I resort to going to a diff. site but I don't like to
04/11/2012