There are so many ways to say it, so many ways to do it....What is your preference? I know for many, this may require a few boxes to check depending on the situation, but what do you prefer?
In general, my own rule of thumb is, if it's not dirty it's not fun. Not that I disapprove of slow sensual lovemaking.There is a place for that and it's very important in a relationship but when you're just looking for fun then dirty, nasty, sweaty sex works best for my wife and I. We get more turned on and enjoy ourselves much more if we feel like we're doing something that others may frown upon. It's a rebellious thing