I express my own desires, but marriage is about compromise and I know that there are times he wants different things than I do. If a choice has to be made, depending on the situation, one of us always compromises. It is not always 50/50 when it comes to things
, but come on, you gotta admit boy toys are WAY more expensive than the average girl toys are.
All kidding aside, we do make compromises everyday for one another. We take care of each other. It isn't about me doing all the housework or taking care of the kiddo or giving him a blow job when he wants it. Things need to get done and I am available to take care of them, only because my husband is working his ass off in a job he isn't particularly fond of and bringing home a nice paycheck to afford our lifestyle and our retirement.
I find the more I give him the things he wants and needs (emotionally, sexually, physically) I get it back tenfold! However, he never demands anything of me.