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Contributor: Short Cake Short Cake
Do you go by the rule look but don't touch in your relationship? If so do you ever get jealous?

Me and my fiance used to before we got serious but now we don't, I do get jealous!
06/09/2012
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Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Honestly I don't mind if he looks at other women or men, or even if he talks to them and befriends them. He doesn't mind with me either. We are pretty open about who we talk to, though, and of course for me, I always leave myself logged in online to all my stuff where I would be chatting, and he has full permission to read whatever he'd like.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
He can look at whoever he wants, hes in a relationship not blind, I rarely feel jealous (I'm actually quite well suited for polyamory but he is not). If I do feel jealous I just look at myself to see what is making me feel that way, maybe we haven't had sex enough lately or I'm feeling insecure, and once I identify the issue I mention it to him so we can fix it.
06/09/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
To a point. He is seriously jealous and I am somewhat....up to sharing experiences like the camming, etc. then it is shared together and not a personal issue. Doesn't make sense, but it is entertainment versus personal.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I don't care, but if he touches, he's dead. We actually agreed on one woman one time! He pointed out a very busty woman in Walmart, and I looked pretty quick and he just started to laugh.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Ryan221 Ryan221
me and my girlfriend are like that too, we love each other thoroughly but of course we look at other people, its natural, but we are just looking. If we didn't know when to stop then we wouldn't be in love would we?
06/10/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I don't care, either. He can look all he wants, but I'm more than enough woman for him and he knows it!
06/18/2012
Contributor: goo goo
We have never thought about this ever. There is no need to since we only have each other.
06/26/2012
Contributor: TransGuy14 TransGuy14
I'm poly, so my partner(s) and I can look and touch. Jealousy is sometimes an issue, but it's all about communication.
11/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Short Cake
Do you go by the rule look but don't touch in your relationship? If so do you ever get jealous?

Me and my fiance used to before we got serious but now we don't, I do get jealous!
married, and we both look all of the time. not big. she could even touch and it wouldn't bother me. i guess i just trust her completely. i have no doubt that she would not like me touching other women. i think that women are wise to trust their men only to a point. we are men, after all. yes, we can be faithful...just don't lock us in a room with a hot, horny dreamgirl and expect miracles.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Look to a point, but never touch! I know my wife wouldn't want me touching another woman in a sexual way, and I'm the same when it comes to her and other men, so we fit each other well.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Look to a point, but never touch! I know my wife wouldn't want me touching another woman in a sexual way, and I'm the same when it comes to her and other men, so we fit each other well.
My lovely wife knows I appreciate a nice looking woman, but I have told her in no uncertain terms that if I ever got the urge to stray, she would know in advance, in other words, I am a one woman man, if I got itchy for other company it would be a sign our marriage is on the rocks land SHE
would know it. I love her too much to chance it.
05/29/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Umm...can't people look at whatever they want? Or are we talking about real-life or online flirting? I'm confused...but as far as looking goes:

My husband and I look at other people (doesn't everyone?), and when we're together we comment on them, for instance I might say "There's one that you'll think is cute!" but it has nothing to do with wanting to have contact with that person or with having an affair. If that's something that I worried about, I would think that's a sign that there is something wrong with our relationship. At a minimum, communication would need improvement.
05/29/2013