What makes a break-up hard for you?

Trysexual Trysexual
All of the above, plus the sex and security.
11/07/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by destinationtwilight
I just recently went through a break-up and I was wondering what was the hardest part for you?
Just the change, but you get over it and used to another life and new routines.
11/07/2012
TransGuy14 TransGuy14
I really miss all of them, also their family.
11/25/2012
Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by destinationtwilight
I just recently went through a break-up and I was wondering what was the hardest part for you?
all of the above no one likes to fail at anything expecially relationships
11/25/2012
kadelette kadelette
This is a great poll and everyone's offering such insightful answers. One of the hardest parts for me is figuring out how to interact with the partner after the breakup (or how to NOT interact with them.) The loss of friendship really hurts though, too.
11/29/2012
Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
The things that you liked in the relationship are gone forever.
12/02/2012
Voir Voir
Nothing really...
I just don't like dealing with the emotions and drama involved.
Because every one I've ended a relationship with has been entirely overly dramatic.
And then the other people asking 'why' the relationship ended.
It's fucking annoying.
12/06/2012
LeeBee LeeBee
Wow, that's hard. I think it depends on the relationship, really. My most recent break up has been difficult because after two years, everything I do and everyone I know reminds me of her or was influenced by her. I suppose it be the change in routine, then. It turned my life upside down.
12/14/2012
VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Not being told we broke up - total silence. "Get the hint" bullshit.

That's harder. I need closure more than my "feelings being spared" (because they won't be ... the silent treatment makes it ten times worse).
I couldn't agree with you more.
12/14/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
Everything! All of the above.
12/14/2012
lovebites lovebites
the friendship
12/15/2012
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
all of the above
01/16/2013
tovehunter tovehunter
Moving on :/ realizing I can't text every little thing to them anymore, realizing that most of my thoughts have something to do with a person not around anymore.
01/17/2013
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
All of the above
01/17/2013
misterazor misterazor
missing the relationship sucks. not being friends sucks. but your entire routine is whacked...especially if you were living with the person. total life disruption. starting back over from scratch.
01/22/2013
eri86 eri86
Even unromantic breakups suck.
03/02/2013
twelve13 twelve13
Losing a best friend is really difficult for me.
03/03/2013
Munko Munko
All of them, but for me it was mostly the friendship. When we split for a few months (intending to be for good) it killed me...we'd been together 5 years. More than having someone to cuddle with or have sex with, or any of that...I missed having my best friend. We did everything together, shared everything, talked about anything...he was (and is) the only person I've ever felt truly comfortable being 100% myself around. Evidently he felt the same, and we couldn't stop contacting each other and worked things out. But those few months were so hard on me.
03/13/2013
karenm karenm
Letting go of the friendship. It is hard to have someone you tell everything to and then one day you're like strangers.
03/26/2013
indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by destinationtwilight
I just recently went through a break-up and I was wondering what was the hardest part for you?
Letting go of the sex wasn't a response and it should have been. I have 2 types of relationships ones that start as SEX and ones that start as a FRIENDSHIP. Whatever it starts as is what I miss the most. I just had a relationship end and we had been really close friends first and are working to keep that so hopefully I wont miss it this time.
03/26/2013
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