I started trimming early on in our marriage - then decided to just go ahead and shave. My wife certainly appreciated not having to pluck pubic hair from her teeth during a BJ. Eventually she put 2+2 together, started trimming, then to shaving - then did a one-up on me by having the laser treatments.
It really all depends on the situation with me. Most of the time I do not care at all, but if her wants some oral, he at least needs to trim if not shave. That choice is his though as I am not picky about shaved or trimmed.
I hate looking at either male or female parts completely shaved, it makes me feel like a pedophile. I would accept not shaved at all but a nice trim is perfect
Lol, it is a little creepy, isn't it? I always thought shaved women just didn't look right. It's like, I'm grown, I should have hair. I would feel like a little girl if I didn't have any hair. To each is own, though.