#ExpressLove - #SexIs - Expressing Love Through Time Spent

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SexIs - Expressing Love Through Time Spent

Catsin writes on our topic of the month: Expressions of Love for SexIs titled: Expressing Love Through Time Spent.


Our modern era brings with it plenty of occasions in which dedicating our time solely to one individual is perceived as a hassle. Doing so means that we sacrifice time that could be spent on the Internet, watching our favorite television shows or sports casts, listening to music, playing video games and completing work not yet finished. We often make excuses for ourselves by claiming that chores, gaming or T.V. viewing is our dedicated friends and family time, yet these activities don’t quite provide us with the feeling of connectedness that we, as humans, desire and need.

Catsin goes on to explain the way they express love is by canceling out all of the external stimuli to focus on the individual they're with. Dedicating that moment of time and energy to the person in front of them instead of being pulled in many directions at once by ipads, phones, televisions, children...Read the entirety of their thoughts here!

How do you express your love?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I let my partner choose the shows/movies we watch, even if there's something I want to watch more.
js250 , funluvinmama , eggiweg , hillys , Kindred , goodeatz , WetJenn , Redboxbaby
8
I go to events I have no interest in because my partner likes them.
funluvinmama , eggiweg , hillys , Kindred , goodeatz , Teacookie
6
I refrain from eating their favorite dessert, dinner or snack if there isn't enough for both of us..
js250 , funluvinmama , eggiweg , Kindred , goodeatz , married with children , Do emu , Teacookie
8
I leave little notes or small gifts for them to find.
js250 , Kiwi Green , Teacookie , Redboxbaby
4
I send emails or text messages to tell them that I'm thinking of them.
funluvinmama , eggiweg , hillys , puppylove , married with children , WetJenn , Teacookie , Redboxbaby
8
I make sure we have "us" time as often as we can with no distractions or company over.
Nazaress , eggiweg , goodeatz , married with children , Do emu , WetJenn , Kiwi Green , Redboxbaby , panthercat23
9
I plan small trips or vacations for things we both like to do.
eggiweg , Kiwi Green , Teacookie
3
I dress up for them in lingerie or costumes and spend the day seducing them.
Nazaress , hillys , Do emu , WetJenn , Teacookie
5
Other!
married with children
1
Total votes: 52 (15 voters)
Poll is closed
04/13/2012
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Nazaress Nazaress
Ha ha. I feel mean because I'll often eat ice cream if there's only enough for one and he watches movies he doesn't necessarily like but I don't often do. Oh, well. I show my love in other ways.
04/13/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't really show my love in any of the above ways. Nazaress, I'm not above eating the last candy bar or whatever even if it's his favorite.
04/14/2012
Do emu Do emu
Me neither. If its not eaten yet it's up for grabs.
04/16/2012
catsin catsin


Hooray! I'm on SexIs!!
04/16/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
hmmmm I don't relate to this we are a craft and gaming family. If anything I worry that I might sufficate my loved ones. The issues meantioned are indicators of unhealthy relationships. Our priorities outside of survival is seeing each other smile. Laughter, surprize, pride, peace,and dedication are just a few things that cause our happiness. Love is not staring at each other all gooey eyed but being active.
04/19/2012
catsin catsin
Quote:
Originally posted by Teacookie
hmmmm I don't relate to this we are a craft and gaming family. If anything I worry that I might sufficate my loved ones. The issues meantioned are indicators of unhealthy relationships. Our priorities outside of survival is seeing each other ... More
I don't mean to say that staring at eachother gooey eyed is what spending exclusive time is about. I mean to say that refraining from video games and television and rather finding time for activities such as hiking, sharing recipes through cooking and, yes, even crafting, allows personal connections.

It's in the article....
04/19/2012
Total posts: 7
Unique posters: 6