What would you do if your honey cheated on you in your dreams?
What would you do if your honey cheated on you in your dreams?
Withholding sex 101- I wrote the book on irrational reasons to not have sex with your spouse.
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. Regardless of who they sleep with- whether it be your sister, mother, your aunt with the halitosis and the large mole on her cheek that you just want to pick at.. or Brooke Shields.
Usually the "no sex rule" is followed by the silent treatment rule (which I now realize isn't exactly punishment but more of a luxury for him ... so you know what, let's cross that out and institute instead - the talking incessantly about the new tampons you just bought, rule.) Hiding the TV remote rule (because you know he's not going to get up to change the channel and if he does, just pop the button off so he's stuck watching Lifestyle... although, if he's anything like my husband, he won't actually hate being forced to watch Designing Women) .... and that's about it.
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. Regardless of who they sleep with- whether it be your sister, mother, your aunt with the halitosis and the large mole on her cheek that you just want to pick at.. or Brooke Shields.
Usually the "no sex rule" is followed by the silent treatment rule (which I now realize isn't exactly punishment but more of a luxury for him ... so you know what, let's cross that out and institute instead - the talking incessantly about the new tampons you just bought, rule.) Hiding the TV remote rule (because you know he's not going to get up to change the channel and if he does, just pop the button off so he's stuck watching Lifestyle... although, if he's anything like my husband, he won't actually hate being forced to watch Designing Women) .... and that's about it.
06/04/2009
I have had this kind of dream before and it could occur again. I was very hurt but not to the point that I was distant, angry, or planning some sort of action to spyte him. I talked to him about my dream and my emotions related to that dream so that he could reassure me. Does that make me weird...bcs I don't seem to fit in any of the categories of the poll above...
06/04/2009
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Or he can make due and jerk off to the Golden Girls... which is totally the resourceful thing to do.
Originally posted by
Sleeping Dreamer
Withholding sex 101- I wrote the book on irrational reasons to not have sex with your spouse.
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. ...
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. ...
Withholding sex 101- I wrote the book on irrational reasons to not have sex with your spouse.
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. Regardless of who they sleep with- whether it be your sister, mother, your aunt with the halitosis and the large mole on her cheek that you just want to pick at.. or Brooke Shields.
Usually the "no sex rule" is followed by the silent treatment rule (which I now realize isn't exactly punishment but more of a luxury for him ... so you know what, let's cross that out and institute instead - the talking incessantly about the new tampons you just bought, rule.) Hiding the TV remote rule (because you know he's not going to get up to change the channel and if he does, just pop the button off so he's stuck watching Lifestyle... although, if he's anything like my husband, he won't actually hate being forced to watch Designing Women) .... and that's about it.
A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. Regardless of who they sleep with- whether it be your sister, mother, your aunt with the halitosis and the large mole on her cheek that you just want to pick at.. or Brooke Shields.
Usually the "no sex rule" is followed by the silent treatment rule (which I now realize isn't exactly punishment but more of a luxury for him ... so you know what, let's cross that out and institute instead - the talking incessantly about the new tampons you just bought, rule.) Hiding the TV remote rule (because you know he's not going to get up to change the channel and if he does, just pop the button off so he's stuck watching Lifestyle... although, if he's anything like my husband, he won't actually hate being forced to watch Designing Women) .... and that's about it.
06/04/2009
Right after I took this job and was gone for 3 months pretty much the whole time, I had a dream that hubby had another woman and I was so mad at him. He just couldn't understand why I was mad! LOL
Not that I worried about him really doing anything, but I did get paranoid for awhile! Of course the kids were still home and they would have told me if ANYTHING went on taht was strange! I have them trained well! LOL
I've done the silent treatment too but figured out he enjoyed it too much but it wasn't necessarily related to a dream..
Not that I worried about him really doing anything, but I did get paranoid for awhile! Of course the kids were still home and they would have told me if ANYTHING went on taht was strange! I have them trained well! LOL
I've done the silent treatment too but figured out he enjoyed it too much but it wasn't necessarily related to a dream..
06/04/2009
Dream sex doesn't bother me. I've dreamt about sexing up people I can't fucking stand, and I've fantasized about other people while I've been in a relationship, but that doesn't mean I'm actually gonna do it. Granted, I don't think most people would openly admit to dreaming about having sex with somebody else, just like most people are reluctant to tell their partners they find somebody else sexually attractive.
06/04/2009
I've never dreamed that he was fucking anyone else. Usually it's me giving someone else a hand job or being molested. Even if I did dream of his cheating on me, I think I'd rationalize it out as "well, I've cheated on him x times in my dreams, and he's only cheated on me x/2 times...." I have a tendency to make up excuses for him.
06/04/2009
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I think it makes sense to be upset because even if the dreams isn't real, the emotions ARE and it can be hard to simply let go of them.
Originally posted by
Mamastoys
Right after I took this job and was gone for 3 months pretty much the whole time, I had a dream that hubby had another woman and I was so mad at him. He just couldn't understand why I was mad! LOL
Not that I worried about him really doing ...
Not that I worried about him really doing ...
Right after I took this job and was gone for 3 months pretty much the whole time, I had a dream that hubby had another woman and I was so mad at him. He just couldn't understand why I was mad! LOL
Not that I worried about him really doing anything, but I did get paranoid for awhile! Of course the kids were still home and they would have told me if ANYTHING went on taht was strange! I have them trained well! LOL
I've done the silent treatment too but figured out he enjoyed it too much but it wasn't necessarily related to a dream..
Not that I worried about him really doing anything, but I did get paranoid for awhile! Of course the kids were still home and they would have told me if ANYTHING went on taht was strange! I have them trained well! LOL
I've done the silent treatment too but figured out he enjoyed it too much but it wasn't necessarily related to a dream..
06/04/2009
I dream he cheats on me about every 6 weeks. I always tell him afterward, accusingly. He then assures me it's not happening, which I knew deep down in the first place. We then will have a nice little make-out or even a morning "do", so it makes up for it.
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
06/04/2009
I dream he cheats on me about every 6 weeks. I always tell him afterward, accusingly. He then assures me it's not happening, which I knew deep down in the first place. We then will have a nice little make-out or even a morning "do", so it makes up for it.
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
06/04/2009
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woops.
Originally posted by
Pumpkin Lady
I dream he cheats on me about every 6 weeks. I always tell him afterward, accusingly. He then assures me it's not happening, which I knew deep down in the first place. We then will have a nice little make-out or even a morning "do", so it makes up
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I dream he cheats on me about every 6 weeks. I always tell him afterward, accusingly. He then assures me it's not happening, which I knew deep down in the first place. We then will have a nice little make-out or even a morning "do", so it makes up for it.
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
I think its just a good trick our brains play on us to milk the situation. Milk it! Milk it!
06/04/2009
When I was pregnant with my son, I had this very vivid dream and I was so pissed off, I woke up crying yelling at my husband...which he thought was especially hilarious after I told him about the dream.
My dream was that as part of his 'job' he had to teach young virgin ladies how to pleasure a man. This was supposed to be okay in the world, something very normal, but I spied as he was 'teaching' a group of about 4 late-teenaged girls. I was so mad and upset because they were thinner, prettier, and not pregnant...lol! So, of course, I went and peed in his shoes...and then woke up.
Yeah...now we laugh about it, but I was so upset. And yes, the cat had peed in my shoes earlier that week...I think that's where my brain picked that up...
My dream was that as part of his 'job' he had to teach young virgin ladies how to pleasure a man. This was supposed to be okay in the world, something very normal, but I spied as he was 'teaching' a group of about 4 late-teenaged girls. I was so mad and upset because they were thinner, prettier, and not pregnant...lol! So, of course, I went and peed in his shoes...and then woke up.
Yeah...now we laugh about it, but I was so upset. And yes, the cat had peed in my shoes earlier that week...I think that's where my brain picked that up...
06/05/2009
I have them ALLLLLL the time. Usually it is his commanders, co workers, or whatever random friend is on the sofa that night. Evidently in my dreams, RANK matters way too much. I am all good with those, as long as I am not tempted to act in real life, which I have been with 2 of the people I had intense sex dreams about and that gets a little too weird.
I have them about him and I am so mad. It seems so real. Sometimes it is people we know I see him with, but most of the time it is fictional uber hot chicks. I have learned to talk to him about it the next day and he never fails to ask how he liked it. He is such a goober. I do better about not getting mad, but the first ones I ever had freaked me out with him. Thank goodness I have not had one yet about the carsalesman the other day that is STILL trying to get in my panties.
I have them about him and I am so mad. It seems so real. Sometimes it is people we know I see him with, but most of the time it is fictional uber hot chicks. I have learned to talk to him about it the next day and he never fails to ask how he liked it. He is such a goober. I do better about not getting mad, but the first ones I ever had freaked me out with him. Thank goodness I have not had one yet about the carsalesman the other day that is STILL trying to get in my panties.
06/05/2009
Eh, dreams are dreams. If we could only control what we dream. The basis of a relationship is trust. Just 'cuz it's dreamed doesn't mean it's real.
Now if there really was cheating, that's different. But dreams, they aren't real. Yes, the emotions are real, and sure it's difficult to see our significant other "with" someone else, but as dreams are not real, I don't see how punishing them would do anything but possibly cause a rift in the relationship... as we are unable to control our dreams.
Now if there really was cheating, that's different. But dreams, they aren't real. Yes, the emotions are real, and sure it's difficult to see our significant other "with" someone else, but as dreams are not real, I don't see how punishing them would do anything but possibly cause a rift in the relationship... as we are unable to control our dreams.
06/07/2009
I've had those dreams and it doesn't bother me at all. I'm just not really the possessive type and sex doesn't have much to do with love in my mind.
Every time I've had those dreams I do recall asking him (in the dream) if he'd worn a condom though. Guess that's where my priorities really are with the subject .
Every time I've had those dreams I do recall asking him (in the dream) if he'd worn a condom though. Guess that's where my priorities really are with the subject .
11/15/2009
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I have to wake up completely before talking to either Sigel or Arch after these dreams 'cause one time I didn't and I BLASTED Sigel...he was like WTF? I explained that he needed to behave better in my dreams and he wasn't amused and told Arch who promptly told me I'd have a sore ass if I tried it with him. Which lead to a dream about him and....well it was just bad.
Originally posted by
The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
02/06/2010
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Well since most dreams of this nature tend to be opposites or balances to real life I'd say you are deleriously happy...or completely insane....
Originally posted by
Victoria
Most of my dreams are apocalyptic and most of my husband's dreams are like freakin horror movies (replete with masked killer and/or monsters) - so yeah, we've got that going for us. Go ahead, read into that shit
02/06/2010
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