Would you, or have you made a sex tape? What would it take to get you to agree to make one?

NuMe NuMe
In Rachel Kramer Bussel's article today, she says "It seems like everybody who is anybody has a sex tape floating around these days."

She then goes on to say "...these tapes fascinate us because they aren’t something that’s only the province of the pros or celebs. You can make your own, on your cell phone or with a digital camera. Part of their appeal, whether famous, infamous or unknown, is that they offer something different from professionally shot flicks.

So what about you? How do you feel about this topic? And do you agree or disagree with her take on it?
09/07/2011
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Rossie Rossie
I will never make a sex tape. Sex to us is a very private matter, I think I'll die before letting other people see me having sex!
09/07/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
In Rachel Kramer Bussel's article today, she says "It seems like everybody who is anybody has a sex tape floating around these days."

She then goes on to say "...these tapes fascinate us because they aren’t something that’s ... More
We recorded ourselves having sex once on my camera and it was the most hilarious thing I ever saw.

We were having very passionate sex and it looked so funny to me, almost animalistic. I couldn't stop laughing as we watched it after we had orgasmed. I was almost crying from the laughter and I couldn't explain why it was so funny to me.

It made my partner really uncomfortable.

Whenever we have recorded these things we have watched them right after and after having seen it, erased/deleted it from the camera.

I was contemplating having a "sexy usb key" filled with pictures and movies of us, hidden in our stash of sex toys. It wouldn't seem suspicious unless something sexy was written on it. I'm still thinking about whether or not I want to do something like that.
09/08/2011
Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
I have recorded myself having sex, but it made me really uncomfortable.
09/08/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
I would not, and I can't think of anything that would make me want to.
09/08/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
We've recorded small bits and pieces, but we've never recorded ourselves fully having sex. Him holding the camera and pointing it down for a few seconds doesn't really count to me lol. I'm not opposed to setting up the camera and recording a whole session, but it's not something I think to do when we're going at it.
09/08/2011
CPM CPM
I'm in a long distance relationship and whenever we're together we make a video. Sometimes he uses a hand-held camera to record his POV, and sometimes we setup a video camera on a tripod.

I have to say, I may not always like the way I look in the videos/pictures, but that has only served to be motivation to exercise more so I look better for the next one!

I love seeing how we look when we're making love from his perspective. I also like still photos of us, but being able to watch video of us gives me the ability to see where I can improve and to see what I was doing that made him make that face (!) when I had my eyes closed!

I trust him implicitly, and neither of us would ever want our footage to leave our possession. That may be the key to a couple agreeing making a video in the first place. We also both use TrueCrypt to make sure our data is encrypted and safe from prying eyes. I wrote up a blog post on it - you may find it useful.
09/08/2011
married with children married with children
what do you mean by sex tape? something you show around, or keep private?
09/09/2011
Jordan & Samantha Jordan & Samantha
I have several of those running around, somewhere beyond my control in the hands of former (and current) lovers. We made them as a part of the fun of sex play. Luckily I work in the erotica industry, and if any of them came back to "bite me" it wouldn't be a big shock. Thank goodness I'm not a teacher or a politician! And I'm not famous enough for people to really care. Although I'd be a wee bit embarrassed if one came out to be sure! Jordan
09/12/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
My husband and I have several that we've made together. We both love having the camera on us. It brings something extra to our love making.
09/12/2011
socalsusieq socalsusieq
Yes I have. It was not shared with anyone else though
09/14/2011
starklover starklover
I never do one.
10/20/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
I would have to be in an extremely trusting relationship to do that, even then the content would be stored in an encrypted volume.
10/20/2011
bsgs bsgs
weve talked about it, its one of our fantasies, but i have no idea if we would ever actually get around to it.....she wants to get a real video camera first too
01/22/2012
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
what do you mean by sex tape? something you show around, or keep private?
something that's recorded on film. I don't think the question is regarding the publicity of the tape.

I've done a couple tapes before and I didn't have an issue with it. If anything, it's interesting to watch afterwards.
01/22/2012
Rusty Shackleford Rusty Shackleford
I've made two and I thought it was hot as hell. I still watch them whenever I need a little "solo lovin'"
01/22/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
I have made a few sex tapes but I don't personally enjoy watching them because it makes me self conscious.
01/26/2012
Pudyqat Pudyqat
My husband has taken some pictures but nothing that would cause a big stir if they ever got in the wrong hands!
11/07/2012
Pururin Pururin
I don't think I'll ever make a sex tape.
11/07/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
In Rachel Kramer Bussel's article today, she says "It seems like everybody who is anybody has a sex tape floating around these days."

She then goes on to say "...these tapes fascinate us because they aren’t something that’s ... More
I would do it if it was kept private
11/07/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I don't think I'd want to see my fat @ss on camera. My husband would probably be excited by it, though
11/07/2012
srexom srexom
wouldn't do it. never would. Would make me worry the rest of my life. Just wouldn't be worth it.
11/07/2012
mpfm mpfm
I'm not interested in making a sex tape. It's too personal and private.
11/07/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
We've talked about it a bit. We might... we'll see.
11/07/2012
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