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Just wondering who has the balls to do it and not be embarrassed to give them one
No because it'd be useless. A gift that they may not even want? No. I would buy them something they want. If they're shy about it, they may just simply have no interest in toys. Also, I would not want to make them even more uncomfortable.
Using toys is something a person will have to want to do on their own. If they're shy about it, it'd be best to let them sort through those things and possibly buy their own.
In a situation like that, I'd just go the safer route. Unless I know a person wants and will use/appreciate a toy, I do not waste my $ buying them one. I will buy them something they're truly interested in. Not every person will take interest in toys. It's like people who love cats or people who love movies. Some will take interest, some will not.