I only have one of the candles and find it pretty strong (Mangosteen).
I'm finding that I like the following three aphrodisiac-infused items the best..
Pomegranate - probably first
Acai - probably second
Mangosteen - a very close second
I love the Acai in the roll-on perfume gel and I wear it a LOT. I have to run errands so I don't really have time to say much more.