I am one of those people that will buy a kit, even if there are a few products that I don't want that is in it. I love getting "more for my money" and trying new things. When I seen the Tenderness kit from shunga, I knew that I had to have it! Even though there are a few items in it that I wasn't really interested in. I found that when I got the products here, checked them out, they weren't so bad! The three items that I really wanted were awesome, and the massage oil that I didn't really "need' is still going to be pretty useful.