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I started with my husband and his penis. He wanted me to be as comfortable as possible so key is to start off slow in insertion and the receiver has to be relaxed, it helps a lot to be. To be honest it is an annoying weird feeling for first few
I started with my husband and his penis. He wanted me to be as comfortable as possible so key is to start off slow in insertion and the receiver has to be relaxed, it helps a lot to be. To be honest it is an annoying weird feeling for first few minutes. So just hang in there and keep relaxed and trust me your lover will love it. I make it a big option for my husband especially during my monthly thing (sorry to bring that up but its the truth). you will get use to it but it is annoying first few minutes like I said before. Sit and relax maybe concentrate on how enjoyable, it is for your lover it will be worth it.
I agree with Brittani on the monthly thing. Anal isn't my most favorite activity but since I do enjoy it on occasion, during your period is an excellent time to stay intimate.
Everyone so far has said what I would say; Start slow, work your way up to where you're comfortable. For me, every time is like this. It's never just all out cock/toy right in.
I would also suggest lots and lots of lube. It makes the difference between feeling terrible and feeling good. Don't be afraid to try different kinds of lubrication either. It REALLY is your best friend during anal sex. I have found what works great for me is the tingling/cooling lube from the KY Yours & Mine set. I think the extra sensation helps me relax since it's very noticeable when used anally.
The only other thing I think is worth mentioning is that you should be in control. It's your anus so you should really be the one who decides what, when, where, how much, and stop.