I get whhat ya mean. I am weird and picky about lingerie because I'm petite (only 5'1!) and it hardly ever fits well. All those sexy, but cheap little thongs and strings that come with matching corsets, bustiers or whatever are always so ugly and saggy on me! I can't even wear them. I would like a tiny bit of padding in the lingerie offered here because I want SOME support, I don't need much, but a little is pretty. I will steer clear of most lingerie that offers no bust support. Most of us will. I don't care for thick padding and I will steer clear of that the same as I do with no support because it looks unrealistic. I like my natural self, but would like a bit of support at least in SOME of the lingerie as well as some push up, only lightly though.