Outdoor love making - worth the risk?

mfletcher1 mfletcher1
i want a little action and this is a thought but need a little help convincing the hubby is public sex worth the risk?
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yes
3  (38%)
no
5  (62%)
Total votes: 8
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04/04/2013
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kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by mfletcher1
i want a little action and this is a thought but need a little help convincing the hubby is public sex worth the risk?
Had to vote no because of the risks, but if there'd been another option like "it depends," I'd have voted that. Here's why:

I'd say no, don't risk public sex if you plan to do it anywhere where people are likely to accidentally come across you, especially a place where families and kids frequent. That's a big no.

For one, I don't like the idea of exposing any kids to myself by accident. I'd never forgive myself. Also, it wouldn't be right to expose ourselves to adults either. I wouldn't want to do that to anybody, especially if they were just trying to be out in public somewhere like a park and then ended up having to see me having sex or something. I'd feel terrible, and nobody should have to be exposed to stuff like that in public. Then there's the risk of police and all.

On the other hand, I've enjoyed myself many, many outdoor sex moments and it can be awesome as long as you pick your place wisely. Like they say, "location, location, location!"

I've done it at a waterfall thingy near my area -- it's beautiful and rarely anybody around unless it's during the early day time in Summer. It's a good choice though since it's located far into the woods and there's plenty of rocks and bushes to hide behind. Plus, you'd hear a car pulling onto the side of the road way before people walked up on ya.

I've also done it in our vehicles outside my partner's old house. His driveway was SOOO long that there was never a chance for someone to ever see or hear us. We'd sometimes just open the car door, and I'd lay on the passengar seat and he'd stand outside the door. Lots of fun.

We've also done it in secluded fields and other similar places -- in the car though. In our area, there's plenty of these safe areas to do it outdoors, so that's a big plus. If you have a lot of secluded empty spaces like that, it'd be wonderful to take advantage of those areas, but if it's to busy and public, I'd not risk it.
04/04/2013
anonymous1298304 anonymous1298304
how public? lol public in general? or specifically outdoors? either way you can get creative about how and where in ways that will reduce or eliminate risks, based on what risks you are worried about.

i feel the same as Kendra about making sure not to somewhere family friendly.so if that's the main worry, think adults only places.like bathroom in a bar-but then there is still the worry of cops.

for outdoors there's really secluded areas

i personally like the risk, within reason.
04/04/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Nah! I personally don't like risk to my sex. Which isn't to say I don't like new and exciting things -- I just have to know I can take my time and be comfortable. Even if getting caught is a thrill, the consequences sure aren't, which I just can't get over.
04/04/2013
eri86 eri86
Unless you have a quiet out of the way spot that no one else knows about, NO.
04/05/2013
mfletcher1 mfletcher1
Quote:
Originally posted by kendra30752
Had to vote no because of the risks, but if there'd been another option like "it depends," I'd have voted that. Here's why:

I'd say no, don't risk public sex if you plan to do it anywhere where people are likely ... More
thank you so much for your advice its a little odd to me asking strangers questions about my love life lol but this website i think is really going to help this was my first poll and a question ive wondered for a while...we live in a small country town so it sounds like it wouldnt be very hard now we just have to get up the nerve to do it lol thanks again!!
04/05/2013
mfletcher1 mfletcher1
thank you everyone for your advice...this all new and a little overwhelming to me actually talking about my love life with strangers but this website is helping alot lol again thank you all!!
04/05/2013
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