I just recieved my extreme butterfly frenzy bullet. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I bought it because I thought it would be better than using half of the rabbit I bought elsewhere. Sorry. It even costs more than the extreme butterfly bullet,but I can't stimulate both my gspot and clit at the same time. I have to balance the rabbit part and try and hold it on my clit and it does a nice job of stimulating when it keeps running. I just got my extreme butterfly frenzy bullet today and no matter how I hold it it gives no stimulation. I realize I am new to toys but they can't be that hard to figure out. I thought maybe my first one was spaced wrong for me, but do I have to buy one of each to find the one that will work the way I envision it. I am 64 and have never had an orgasm and maybe it is just me but so far O have purchased 3 different types of bullets and the rabbit. I can't continue to purchase what looks like it will work, being on social security I can't buy a super expensive one that I don't know will work either.