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Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
personally I have never had anal sex and am very hestitant to try it but my special guy friend keeps begging for it. How was everyones 1st experince with it? Why did you or didn't you like it? What keeps you doing it again?
02/29/2012
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ScottA ScottA
Don't go from zero to an inserted penis. If it is something that you want to try them make a journey of it. You need to learn to enjoy the sensations, learn to relax, and learn to trust both yourself and your partner.

If you want to try start on your own with some lube and try external stimulation - just rub around your anus, perhaps right after (or during) a shower (you don't want to be worried about it being "dirty"). Try this a few times until you enjoy the sensations (try combining it with a little genital stimulation with the other hand).

Once you're comfortable with that, slowly move to penetration with a single finger. Use gloves if you want - but make sure you use lube. After a few times, if it's still feeling good, move up to a small toy or so.

Once you're ready to bring your partner into it go back to the external stimulation and move from there.

I'm a guy, so my reasons are probably pretty meaningless to you, but a nice slick toy or finger feels really good (whether its me or my wife) - that's why I do it.
02/29/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
I've never tried this either. Curious to what people say
02/29/2012
wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by ScottA
Don't go from zero to an inserted penis. If it is something that you want to try them make a journey of it. You need to learn to enjoy the sensations, learn to relax, and learn to trust both yourself and your partner.

If you want to try ...
I have never tried anal either, but this seems like pretty good advice to me. Storing away for future reference.
02/29/2012
PrincessEvil PrincessEvil
never try this, curious since my special guy seems to like it but he didn't push the idea on me. it just made me want to please him, and maybe i'll like it too
03/01/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
Good advice thanks. I am still not sure if it is something I will ever do but I never say never.
03/01/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
Good advice thanks. I am still not sure if it is something I will ever do but I never say never.
just try it.... ya never know till you try. Love in the butt is wonderful
03/08/2012
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