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1st post and been looking for awhile. My wife and I both like anal play/sex (mostly it's play). She had to go on a business trip and I used a dildo and a prostate vibe toy. The 1st time was with the dildo and I had a accident slightly on it and
1st post and been looking for awhile. My wife and I both like anal play/sex (mostly it's play). She had to go on a business trip and I used a dildo and a prostate vibe toy. The 1st time was with the dildo and I had a accident slightly on it and had to go to the bathroom in a few mins later. Day 2 I used the dildo again and same thing happened but not on the toy itself. About 2 hrs later I used the vibe and had a accident slightly on it and had to go to the bathroom. I thought that it would not happen bc it was not as far in as the dildo but I was wrong. I had just ate supper earlier about 2 hrs if that could that be the reason? I am a AM bathroom guy. I want to be played with but don't want this to happen. Nothing like this has happened before. So the question is if I waited longer after I ate could that have happened? Or would the same thing happen? Thankyou and have a nice day
We have three different vascular systems. Our heart/brain, our bodies frame muscles, and our gut. Our heart and brain are always preferentially provided with blood, but the muscles and gut kind of "share" circulation. It is why you cramp after eating if you swim too soon or try and do a run. More blood flow is in the gut, less in the muscles. If you force the body to divert blood to the muscles, such as running after a meal, the food will "sit" in the gut and gassy feeling/heartburn can happen. This is a simplified explanation, but bottom line, you had a meal, this started more active parastalsis in your gut (the rhythmic movement that makes food progress), so you increased the chance of stool being in the rectum. On top of that, anything in the rectum (your body does not know if it is stool or a toy), causes parastalsis as well.
So, what you had happen CAN happen and is normal. You should not eat within about four hours before doing play like this (in your case), and make sure you have had a bowel movement if you even think there is anything in the rectum.
You can always do a small enema cleanse, as many here suggested, but that can be harsh over time, on the tissues. The other thing that some porn stars do, or so I have read, is take an Imodium tablet about an hour before anal play to slow down parastaltic activity. However, I would never recommend this, as it seems extreme to take a medication you don't really need, in order to do anal play. I worry that you could throw off your normal digestion/bowel habits that way.
Just timing of food and maybe a small bit of "internal cleansing" would be enough.