Anal Curiosity

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Anal Curiosity

Brownchique Brownchique
The only time I have ever come close to anal sex was when my partner lost his sense of direction and went into the wrong "hole". Ever since that painful night I have been wary of anal sex, but of late I have started to develop an interest in the topic. What should I do in order to "test the waters"?

Also, my biggest problem with anal sex is the whole deal with fecal matter. How can you make anal sex a more hygenic experience?
01/20/2010
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ScottA ScottA
Go to the bathroom first, and most of the fecal matter will come out. If you want to you can take a small "anal douche" (~6-10 oz warm water enema). If you do that two or three times you'll make sure that you don't encounter anything until your intestines kick into gear again (you have a cycle, often connected with when you eat). Give yourself about a half-hour afterwards to let your system absorb the water and rest. Condoms and gloves also help.

Best start-off toy is a finger. You have a few, your partner has a few. Start with yours and some lube, and rub around the outside of your anus. Learn to enjoy the feelings, which requires that you psychologically _let_ yourself enjoy the feelings. Jack Morin recommends that you also look at your anus with a mirror.

Once you've done that a while you can start slowly penetrating yourself. A glove is a good idea because it makes your fingers smoother. Make sure you use plenty of lube, and go slow. Again discover the feelings and let yourself enjoy them.

Move up slowly from there. Maybe add a second finger, maybe get a small butt plug. Once you're comfortable playing with yourself and enjoying your anus you can bring your partner into it, but start small again - you'll tense up a bit because you're sharing control with someone else.
01/20/2010
ScottA ScottA
BTW "bringing your partner into it" means with toys and fingers at first. Give yourself plenty of time to get to the stage where you can accept a penis or something of similar size. You need to learn to relax your anus and be comfortable with it relaxed, and that takes a while.
01/20/2010
ScottA ScottA
BTW "bringing your partner into it" means with toys and fingers at first. Give yourself plenty of time to get to the stage where you can accept a penis or something of similar size. You need to learn to relax your anus and be comfortable with it relaxed, and that takes a while.
01/20/2010
ScottA ScottA
Oops - mouse-finger "stutter"
01/20/2010
Brownchique Brownchique
Thank so much for the advice! I will definitely try it out!
01/25/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Brownchique
The only time I have ever come close to anal sex was when my partner lost his sense of direction and went into the wrong "hole". Ever since that painful night I have been wary of anal sex, but of late I have started to develop an interest ...
If you have regular bowel movements and eat lots of fiber this should not be an issue!
12/10/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Douche.
12/10/2010
Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
Using fingers and 1 inch diameter dildos is the best way to get acquainted with anal. Having regular bowel movements and a high-fiber diet, as darkkitty mentioned, is also very important.
12/15/2010
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