Anal, Good or Bad?

Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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What do people really think about Anal Sex? Please leave your thoughts.
10/08/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful breakdown of Anal Sex:

Hating but dreaming of anal/porn
Is there anyone else who does not like anal sex, but has dreams or enjoys watching porn of anal sex?

Okay to have anal sex again?
A friend of mine was playing with her Bootie plug for the first time a few days ago, and she had used more than enough lube for insertion and on the...

Help the anal sex beginner...
I want to try anal sex but Last time I tried it was painful and turned me off from sex completely... I figured a small plug would be a good way to...

All Anal Sex Toy Pros!
So I believe it was Kendra who posted a forum question about anal fissures JUST this morning. Oddly enough, my husband found out he has a minor one. I

Anal Sex?? Anal anything?
I have NEVER done anything anally? Is that the word? Really the only people I know in real life who are into anal stuff are men, they seem quite...
10/08/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I love it, and I've had an interest in it since I was 12-13. I wish it wasn't so annoying to prep for, we'd do it a LOT more often if it was easier to prep. I think it's great as long as you're responsible and clean
10/08/2012
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I have a tilted uterus so I have trouble with pain during vaginal stimulation, so I'm really curious about it. I've heard it is a good way to stimulate your G-Spot and I'm curious if it might be less painful than vaginal for me.

However, I'll most likely never try it, because any sight/thought of poop would turn me off completely.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
I love anal with my girlfriend
10/08/2012
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
I love it. With the caveat that it is great with a good partner who your trust and you can explore together. I tried it once with someone who I thought we had a really great connection, but in retrospect, not really, and that was a painful experience. I am glad I tried again with someone I have that trust and bond with because they have taken their time and it has been a pleasant and mindblowing experience ever since.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Anal play enhances my orgasms - so I'm a fan. My wife has fought me on this for years - but finally agrees that helps increase the intensity of her orgasms. Now we're starting experiment with anal sex. She commented that its ok - but she can't see having an orgasm from it - so that's my challenge - bring her to an anal orgasm!
10/09/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
To each their own it isn't something I am into it isn't bad unless you do it the wrong way an you tear that anal tissue.
10/09/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I enjoy it when it isn't rough at all.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I like it...but have only done it a handful of times or so.
10/09/2012
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
I enjoy it sometimes. I really have to want it to be able to have anal,and that is partly because my ex made it a horrible experience, and so painful. With my boyfriend now we take things slow and it can be nice, but I guess it takes a lot of patience on his part. He loves it, but, like I said, I have to be really in the mood or I can't seem to relax
10/09/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
As a receiver: Done right, anal is very good, done wrong it's very bad. To do it right you have to want it and be absolutely comfortable with your partner and yourself.

As a giver there's less of a difference.
10/10/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I enjoy it, provided it's slow and gentle.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
Love it from both sides I end up giving a lot more often than receiving though.
10/11/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I love it, I have a hard time getting off from vaginal sex and it is much easier with anal for me!
10/11/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
im indifferent im experimenting with a plug i just bought and i really enjoy stimulation that doesn't involve penetration
10/11/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I'm the receiver and I love it
10/11/2012
Contributor: Two Grand Two Grand
I haven't really had anal sex with peneration, maybe one day my wife would peg me, but she is not into anal sex at all. So I put in a plug and maserbate a lot.When I was a teenager I was raped by some guys in a Y locker room, and I did nit enjoy that experience at all,
10/11/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
I enjoy it sometimes. I really have to want it to be able to have anal,and that is partly because my ex made it a horrible experience, and so painful. With my boyfriend now we take things slow and it can be nice, but I guess it takes a lot of ... more
Grrr! I hate people who ruin sexual experiences for others by being selfish and awful! Seriously, few things make me angrier and I'm really sorry that you had that experience. Good for you though, for working through it and finding that you can enjoy it now that you're in good relationship. I think that's awesome.

As for me, I love it! It takes some preparation because I want everything to be nice and clean so I'm not distracted by worrying about it. But once we get going...yay! I find it very hot, very intimate, and I love how he gets turned on by it. I've always really liked it--the first time I did it, I was, um, LOUD and didn't realize the window was open until my boyfriend at the time pointed it out AFTER we were done. I sure hope the neighbors enjoyed my very vocal expression of my arousal.

Lots of lube, lots of trust and lots of patience can make anal a great experience. If it hurts at all then, you're doing something wrong and everything needs to stop.
10/11/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I love it. It took a long time for me to be able to take all of him in me, but the pay off was well worth the wait. I can't picture my sex life without it now.
10/11/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
not i to it
10/11/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Just the feeling is awesome
10/11/2012
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Grrr! I hate people who ruin sexual experiences for others by being selfish and awful! Seriously, few things make me angrier and I'm really sorry that you had that experience. Good for you though, for working through it and finding that you can ... more
Thanks, those are some great points
10/12/2012
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Two Grand
I haven't really had anal sex with peneration, maybe one day my wife would peg me, but she is not into anal sex at all. So I put in a plug and maserbate a lot.When I was a teenager I was raped by some guys in a Y locker room, and I did nit enjoy ... more
I really sorry that that happened to you, but thanks for contributing your input.
10/12/2012
Contributor: Petite Cannibal Petite Cannibal
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
What do people really think about Anal Sex? Please leave your thoughts.
As long as you're responsible, and cleaned out, it's great. I find it a great annoyance though that you have to slowly prep for bigger things, though, other than that, it feels great.
02/15/2013
Contributor: melliegirl melliegirl
it will enhance your sex life
03/07/2013
Contributor: pierced cock 4 her pierced cock 4 her
Well ill speak for myself, but the first few set of beads I bought were small, and as time an pleasure of anal stimulation. I have bought bigger over the yrs and I'm graduating from those. I usually just handle this by myself, thus far I haven't been with a woman who is as open to anal pleasure as I am.... Hopefully one day that will change.
Nonetheless when I think about a plug or beads in my ass, I shower with a good hot water enema, shave what little hair that's around my asshole, and get all fresh n clean.
Then I lay a few towels down, get my toy box out, throw on some anal, gaping, large toy, stretching porn.
Once I've got a pillow underneath my ass (makes for better penetration) I but some lube and toys in a bowel... Makes for a great way to keep the toys lubed up. I start off with some small beads and work my way up to larger, deeper, harder thrusting, all along trying to be in the best position in order to get the best penetration. Once I've become relaxed and horny as hell, I might roll into my side an swing a leg up or over and continue to penetrate my relaxed lubes up butthole, oh the lube shooter or anal spike is a great addition to my 30 plus toys...
So now that im really enjoying myself, ill get 3-4 medium sized beads, glass or what feel good, and slowly slide one by one in. At this point I've got 5 all in at the same time...
Now its ready for the expandable butt plug, slide it in pump it up and tease myself with the pumped up plug, sometimes it comes out an there is popping filling that makes me start shaking at the legs.... Now I've got plenty of lube, relaxed butthole and use the buttplug back n forth, still with my legs up an back.
Time for some glass toys and larger beads, trying and have accomplished it, but more the merrier. I did this last night for over 4.5 hrs non-stop. And after writing this, I'm gonna do it all over again around 3 this afternoon... And will continue non stop again for hrs n hrs....maybe ill share a picture of my collection.... Anyone oppressed to that???
03/09/2013