Anal Orgasm

Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Rocky LaFemme
Related to: 
I am new to anal play and I was wondering what is an anal orgasm? How do you have one? Which toy do you suggest?
06/28/2009
  • Weekly BOGO: Accessorize for Pleasure! Buy 1 Vibrator And Ge
  • Try a luxury harness with a dildo and save 45% on a kit!
  • Better Price - Save 40%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
ScottA ScottA
I'm researching that one myself. The only thing I can categorically tell you at this point is that you need to be able to be very relaxed - you relax into an anal orgasm rather than tensing into it.
06/28/2009
Chou Wang Chou Wang
I'm not sure how to describe a female anal orgasm but according to my girlfriend it's something so intense that she wouldn't be able to handle more than two (well actually she does, but is sooo humble). You can intensify your clitoral/vaginal orgasm by adding anal stimulation. The orgasms are very intense that way.

I'm getting no-ejaculatory anal orgasms most of the time and ejaculatory without penile stimulation almost every time; that's solo. With a partner it's sometimes tricky as it takes a while before your partner learns how to make it right for you. The more solo experience you have the easier it gets to steer the partner into the right direction.

The relaxing is certainly a very important issue so I usually don't hesitate to have a few drinks while watching a nice porn movie before I even start playing around. I love skin-like toys they are the best and safest (injury wise) you can really experiment with slow deep strokes, serious pounding, rocking, etc. etc. There are certain breathing and muscle contraction/relaxation techniques that are very useful in the beginning. I remember that the Aneros manual (downloadable) had a good introduction.

It's definitely a combination of material, size and tempo. Everything quite individual for everyone.
08/03/2009
Kickin in Cali Kickin in Cali
Quote:
Originally posted by Chou Wang
I'm not sure how to describe a female anal orgasm but according to my girlfriend it's something so intense that she wouldn't be able to handle more than two (well actually she does, but is sooo humble). You can intensify your ... More
What does one feel like? I am no stranger to anal stimulation due to a series of childhood gastro-intestinal problems and grew to love anal play but I seriously don't think I've ever had an anal orgasm.
08/06/2009
Yoda Yoda
For men I think it involves the prostate and its contractions due to stimulation. It's happened to me, but I wouldn't call it an "orgasm". It just feels like a more intense regular orgasm.
08/22/2009
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Yoda
For men I think it involves the prostate and its contractions due to stimulation. It's happened to me, but I wouldn't call it an "orgasm". It just feels like a more intense regular orgasm.
That's one type for men, but there's another type that's more periodic contractions of the rectal area. I'm not sure if it's technically an orgasm or just rhythmic muscle contractions at the plateau phase, but it is distinct from a prostate/genital orgasm (which are related in physiology though they have slightly different subjective feelings).
08/22/2009
Czechmate Czechmate
Being male, and enjoying anal stimulation I have had a few anal orgasms without ejaculating. There isn't a "tensing up" as with regular orgasms, actually I never even really know it's going to happen till my head is spinning and my sphincter muscles are contracting rapidly. Then a wash of pure relaxation occurs throughout my body with a "buzz" effect and lightheadedness.
For my wife, she describes an "assgasm" the same way, and I can feel her contracting on my penis and she is incoherant in her speaking/moans, and her eyes roll back into her head during it.
The good thing is that it seems we can both have multiple "assgasms" within a short period of time, leaving us both dizzy and differently satisfied for awhile as opposed to ejaculating or vaginal/clitoral orgasm.
10/13/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Quote:
Originally posted by Czechmate
Being male, and enjoying anal stimulation I have had a few anal orgasms without ejaculating. There isn't a "tensing up" as with regular orgasms, actually I never even really know it's going to happen till my head is spinning and my ... More
I really want to have one of those "assgasms" any technique in particular you recommend?
10/15/2009
ScottA ScottA
I find it's really hard to do it on your own. It helps to have a partner so you can ignore "what I'm doing" and focus on the sensations. I'm still not sure on other techniques, though.

Czechmate - what do you find works best?
10/16/2009
Czechmate Czechmate
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
I find it's really hard to do it on your own. It helps to have a partner so you can ignore "what I'm doing" and focus on the sensations. I'm still not sure on other techniques, though.

Czechmate - what do you find works best?
For me, I like to be lying on my back and my partner kneeling before me. Now I have found that I cannot have an "assgasm" with a thin object penetrating me...somewhere 5" to 6" around seems best. As for depth, I prefer my partner to go no deeper than 5 or 6" as well. Fast and short thrusts (1-2") while bumping my prostate occassionally has me having the elusive assgasm within 10 minutes.

I have been able to achieve it in the "doggystyle" position, but it isn't as common.

My wife has achieved them in both positions, but her favorite is lying facedown flat and me on top of her, but I am a push-up position (gotta have strong arms). She likes it super fast and short strokes as well...and she is able to have at least 5 assgasms in a 10 minute time.
10/18/2009
Raven Raven
Czechmate, I'm going to try what you mentioned.

To date, neither my husband nor I have had a straight anal orgasm, but when the anal is mixed with other stimulation it comes close. I am anxious to try your methods and see what happens.
10/19/2009
MR. P SPOT MR. P SPOT
Quote:
Originally posted by Rocky LaFemme
I really want to have one of those "assgasms" any technique in particular you recommend?
I did not have anal orgasms without masterbation until we bought a sex machine. I tried sevreal dildo's and viberators. I settled on a slightly curved 11" with insertable length of 8.5. and dia. of 1.75 although with some work I can stand 2.5" butt plug. Anyway the 1.75" I hook up and lay on my back and slide it up into my ass about 1/2 and start the fuck machine on low speed. Once I work my way closer and closer to the base and get pretty full, I increase the speed until I feel a tension build and I normally have my legs resting on chairs and slightly towards my chest for a full open ass fuck. I also have the slight curve pointing up for a good prostate massage when I am on my back, or the curve down when I am on all fours. I can normally have at least three non come orgasms before my dick must be stroked and have a ass fuck/dick,suck/ masterbation orgasm. By then if we have not sucked,stroked,fucked her to multi orgasms she is ready for her turn!
Ass fucking, non dick masterbating orgasms are different and sometimes better than just making love or just masterbating,in my personal opinion. I like all of them but sometimes I just need a good ass filling fuck to really be satisfied.
11/11/2009
Atargatis Atargatis
The orgasms that i have when i have something fucking me in my ass combined with other stimulation are extremely intense. i have never had one solely from anal stimulation, but i'm sure that it is possible.
12/07/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Quote:
Originally posted by MR. P SPOT
I did not have anal orgasms without masterbation until we bought a sex machine. I tried sevreal dildo's and viberators. I settled on a slightly curved 11" with insertable length of 8.5. and dia. of 1.75 although with some work I can stand ... More
WOW a sex machine maybe I can get one in the future. Which one do you have?
12/09/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Well, I don't know if i had an "assgasm" but I have had some of the intense orgasms of my life while using the Slim Jim by Happy Valley and The Crystal Chic Wand by California Exotic Novelties. I totally figured out how to rub my G-spot anally and have never been happier or cum harder1! GO ME.
12/09/2009
Nihilanth Nihilanth
Well, I'm not sure if this helps, but I have orgasms from anal play by using a dildo on myself. I tend to prefer realistic dildos to abstract ones, with a size slightly above average. I really love the in-and-out motion, and the stretching and that completely filled up feeling creates an extremely intense pressure that, like I said on another post, sometimes just "makes me cum" without any penile stimulation. I think it's a lot of a mental thing... you need to be relaxed, confortable with yourself and/or your partner and, obviously, very excited. Oh, and I guess it helps if you really love anal . I'm going to paste here what I said on another topic related to anal and orgasm:

"...It's strange really, but I cum very quickly with that sort of play (in fact, there were times that I have orgasmed from the initial insertion, right when the dildo went in balls-deep... it was quite intense, I was very much excited and felt that I had absolutely no control). These orgasms from anal play, without any penile stimulation, feels incredibly intense. They build up, slowly but very surely, and when I finnaly orgasm it feels like my entire body is climaxing, not just my penis. My whole body twists and turns, on the verge of literally exploding, pulsating from the inside out. I think that one of the main differences from penile orgasms (at least for me, and comparing from masturbation only) comes from that loss of control... something (or someone, if that's the case) is entering you, penetrating you, fucking you, conducting your pleasure and taking control of your entire body (mind, soul?); your excitement just builds and builds until it finnaly collapses, rendering you completely helpless, forced to cum. You are left feeling fucked, violated, satisfied. Pleasured."
12/19/2009
Mr Dj Mr Dj
Take a few shots..it will help to relax. Works for me. Just make sure u don't drink too much, because then you won't be able to feel much! But 2-3 vodka or whatever shots would help to relax the muscles and enjoy anal sex.
10/12/2011
spiced spiced
I've never had an anal orgasm without also having a penile orgasm at the same time. But the ones I've had with anal stimulation while cumming were great!
12/07/2012
Total posts: 18
Unique posters: 12