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My hubby just came out and said when he was younger he experimented with anal play by himself. He kinda liked it but he's really shy about it. What could I do or use to make him feel good but not make him feel awkward?
Tell him you are happy he told you. That is a key to long term happiness and trust. Tell him you love his butt and want to make it a happy butt, any way you can. Tell him you want to give him oral, but can make the experience 1000 times better, if he wants, by him letting you play with his butt.
Ideally, you want to get a well manicured finger, and slide it in with oodles of lube, then, from the inside, go up as if you are trying to touch the inside of his belly button. You will feel something that feels like and is shaped and sized like a walnut shell. That is the prostate. Rub it GENTLY. Press it GENTLY, while giving him oral. He will have an orgasm like never before.
If you are daring, take a shower together and give him some kisses and licks back there. Tell him you would love it for him to reciprocate. I bet he will.
From there, the sky is the limit. We do toys, pegging, you name it, but honestly, he still thinks my finger in his butt is the best toy ever.
I keep one finger manicured short and smooth at all times, just for him. Just for that. He is driven wild just holding my hand daily, knowing my finger is that way...just for him. What a constant reminder and turn on.
Indulge your hubby's wishes and maybe he can indulge yours???!!!!
The anus is full of happy nerves...in men and woman. It would be such ashamed to not make full use of them, eh? Life is way too short to deny pleasure that is so, so easy to come by.