Anal Sex. How do you refer to it with your significant other?

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Bignuf

If I want her anally, and am in a situation where gestures and touching alone don't do it, I say I would love to have her "tush" or "bumm", which is how SHE started referring to that special place, long ago.

We have a friend who tells her hubby "I feel like some butt-sex", which, interestingly, sounds "crude" to our ears. Another younger friend goes further still, she says her and her husband simply say "I want to fuck your ass" or call it "ass-fucking time".

So, do you use "cutsy"terms (as honestly, WE do) or are you a bit more "direct" in using "cruder" language. NONE of the friends in our little group seem to say "I want ANAL sex". Interesting, since some DO say "I want vaginal sex", or "vaginal penetration" tonight.

What is YOUR terminology when anal sex is desired?

01/02/2012

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married with children

I call it "using her naughty hole"

01/03/2012

Rossie

I use dirty words "fxxk my ass".

01/03/2012

ScottA

There was one thread on here where someone talked about using "sodomy/sodomize".

01/04/2012

Cookie Monster Mike

Generally more cutesy words for me, I start with hints more so at first, usually complimenting that she has a really nice ass and that it turns me on etc.

01/04/2012

AndroAngel

"Fuck my ass" "Sodomize me" and the use of "anal sex" are all common with us. I can't stand cutesy terms, no offense. If he said he wanted my "tushy" I'd probably walk away until I could stop thinking about that term. It'd make me feel weird, because I haven't heard my ass referred to as a "tush" or a "bum" since I was a kid, and I certainly haven't referred to it that way in as long.

01/04/2012

Hallmar82

We generally use a cute word for it since we hardly ever do.

01/04/2012

Bignuf

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Originally posted by AndroAngel

Interesting how we are ALL so different. I LOVE the term Tushy and Bumm...and so does he. It is one reason he comes and plays there all the time!!! For me the term "FUCK" would be the one where I would have to walk away to that get vile term out of my head. It is people who don't like me, or who are jerks who try to "fuck me over" (assuming you don't tell them to "FUCK OFF"). Either way, that term is just not something I associate with MY sexual fun.