We have a friend who tells her hubby "I feel like some butt-sex", which, interestingly, sounds "crude" to our ears. Another younger friend goes further still, she says her and her husband simply say "I want to fuck your ass" or call it "ass-fucking time".
So, do you use "cutsy"terms (as honestly, WE do) or are you a bit more "direct" in using "cruder" language. NONE of the friends in our little group seem to say "I want ANAL sex". Interesting, since some DO say "I want vaginal sex", or "vaginal penetration" tonight.
What is YOUR terminology when anal sex is desired?