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Peach Girl Peach Girl
My partner and I have never had anal sex and needed some advice. What types of lubricant, toys, and condoms should we use? Are there any common mistakes we should be aware of? Any other advice would be much apriciated.
Thank you,
-Peach Girl
09/06/2010
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Kayla Kayla
For one, the biggest thing is to take it slow. Start with a finger (gloved if you're concerned), and use lots of lubricant and be aroused when you start. Silicone lubricant usually works best. Any condom we've found is okay. Start off with "Beginner Anal Toys" - Doc Johnson makes a lot of small ones that look like just little fingers.

I'd honestly recommend checking out some of the books/movies on here about anal pleasure. They'd be most helpful.

(Love this one: link )
09/06/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
This is a good place to start your journey. link

Like Mistress Kay said, take it slow and start with fingers. There is some good info on the forum here also. Check under anal toys and anal sex

Have fun.
09/06/2010
ScottA ScottA
Many silicone lubes are thin, which can make them more difficult to use for anal activities. A heavy water-based lube works well, too. Whatever lube you use try it out first to make sure you don't have any reactions to it.

Make sure that the lube you use is used liberally and that you work some inside your (or your partner's, depending on what you're doing) anus and on the toy/finger/penis/whate ver.

Silicone toys are great for anal play because they don't leach anything and they're easy to keep sanitary.

Go slow. Plan for at least a month of anal play (slowly increasing the size of what you're playing with) before trying anal intercourse.

Make sure you can be completely relaxed when you play. Agree that either partner can stop or pause the play. If you're concerned about mess then check yourself out first in the bathroom with a finger, dildo or other anal toy. If you're still concerned you can use a small water enema or glycerin suppository. Find a comfortable position to play in.

Use a condom for penis-anal sex. Semen in the rectum can get messy, and your partner can get a UTI.
09/06/2010
Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
You can never use too much lube. Rinse and repeat. When it comes to what type of lube, water- and silicone- based can be pretty thin. Try and look for a very thick lubricant. Personally, I've had the best experience with the standard KY Jelly, as well as Aloe Cadabra (link), whereas some lubes that are advertised specifically as being great for anal sex weren't enough.

Start out small -- fingers, small toys. Work up to it. Don't push yourself to do full-on penetrative anal sex if you're not ready.

Finally, experiment with positions and angles. Anal during doggystyle is great for most, but perhaps missionary or you lying flat on your stomach might be better.
09/07/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
This is a good place to start your journey. link

Like Mistress Kay said, take it slow and start with fingers. There is some good info on the forum here also. Check under anal toys and anal sex

Have fun. ...
rep points for that top link there! I was starting to get a little curious about anal, I have never even thought of trying it.. now I might head over that way
09/12/2010
x203 x203
start with fingers ad work your way up to it.
02/26/2012
abbylover abbylover
good replys
04/12/2012
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