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Boyfriend and I FINALLY were able to have anal sex, after a bit I was super turned on and just wanted a good old fashioned vag pounding. I know you're supposed to clean up between the two, so I grabbed a charmin wet wipe thing and had
Boyfriend and I FINALLY were able to have anal sex, after a bit I was super turned on and just wanted a good old fashioned vag pounding. I know you're supposed to clean up between the two, so I grabbed a charmin wet wipe thing and had bf wipe down really well before entering me vaginally. Now I'm wondering if even this was enough - I know only time will tell but can anyone ease my mind until then? Does anyone else use this method for anal to vag sex?
A wet wipe was all you used? I would not do that because I just have my doubts that it'd do a very good job of cleaning. I would definitely take the extra time to clean up between the two because it's just not worth it to transfer bacteria (and poop!) into your vagina and end up with an infection.
I'm going to say it's not enough. Doesn't mean you'll get an infection or anything, but I would be more careful to do a real cleaning up next time & I'd even go ahead and clean things now, even after the fact. Best to try and remove anything that's still . . . removable... Maybe I'm just a clean freak though, but you really can get some nasty issues from doing anal then vaginal if you aren't careful. My partner and I don't have anal sex, so I can't speak from experience here. However, I have cleaned myself downstairs & would say it might be a good idea (might not be a good idea for you, but this is something I've done when necessary) to give everything a good cleaning (preferrably with a natural soap!) down there and maybe even try and splash a little clean water inside the vagina, then release it. I've done this when my partner comes & it keeps leaking out afterward. I'll just kind of rinse it out with clean water. When I push the water inside, then push it back out, the come seems to come out along with it. It's not douching though. I do not recommend that either! Douching is infection-city. But super clean water entering the vagina is something I do when I feel I need to rinse things out. I just do it with a medicine dropper or in the tub. No forceful squirting inside & if you're pregnant don't do it at all.
I'm a freak about butt germs, so maybe it's just me, but I would definitely not let him do that again without either using a condom if he wants to do anal or a real good cleaning after the anal and before the vaginal penetration. Tell him the risks involved & he will care enough to stop and clean things first.