Any woman interested in anal play, but your male partner just isn't interested?

Bignuf Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not interested, or does not want to?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
YES, that IS my situation.
11
Nope. He was interested from the get go, but I'm not
1
No...Neither of us is interested.
4
No...We BOTH love it.
12
Other.
3
Total votes: 31 (31 voters)
Poll is closed
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~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I've never had a partner who didn't engage in anal play with me and not want to or have it be partially their idea too.
03/11/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
society gets in women's brains and tells them the butt is dirty and this is not safe, its a shame. Plus the fact that most guys suck at anal sex, and rush it... its rough out there for a butt lover like myself
03/11/2012
Taylor Taylor
I've never been with a guy who was interested in trying it. It's a shame because I've been curious to try it beyond using the occasional toy by myself.
04/07/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Yeah, I'm pretty much in that situation. I LOVE anal and my husband and I have done it a couple times, but he won't initiate it and being submissive in the bedroom as I am, I'm afraid to ask.
04/09/2012
ScottA ScottA
Many people believe that it's dirty, dangerous, and hurts the receiver. If a guy really cares about you and thinks that it's going to hurt you then he's not going to be interested in trying it.
04/09/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
This will never be a problem for me as I love anal. Now if only some hypnotist would get her to as least be ok with doing it, even if it was "just for me".
04/09/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by godweensatan
society gets in women's brains and tells them the butt is dirty and this is not safe, its a shame. Plus the fact that most guys suck at anal sex, and rush it... its rough out there for a butt lover like myself
Thankfully I had a few lovers who were ALL good at it...so I became a fan. Then my hubby, who was SCHOOLED by some wonderful woman out there, became an aficionado and expert. When we got together, it was ALL fireworks and NO rain!!!!
04/09/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Many people believe that it's dirty, dangerous, and hurts the receiver. If a guy really cares about you and thinks that it's going to hurt you then he's not going to be interested in trying it.
We BOTH came into our relationship knowing it was SAFE and FUN...and indeed, PAIN was never going to be part of it, for either of us. WE HATE pain.
04/09/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Yeah, I'm pretty much in that situation. I LOVE anal and my husband and I have done it a couple times, but he won't initiate it and being submissive in the bedroom as I am, I'm afraid to ask.
Ahhhh...go ahead and ask him. It will make his day.
04/09/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not ... More
We both love it
04/09/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never had a partner who didn't engage in anal play with me and not want to or have it be partially their idea too.
^ This.
04/09/2012
vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
Before I had sex for the first time, when I would tell guys I didn't want to have sex, they would immediately ask about anal
04/11/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not ... More
I want it, but he doesn't!
04/15/2012
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
Before I had sex for the first time, when I would tell guys I didn't want to have sex, they would immediately ask about anal
Just like the vegetarians who are asked "well, how about chicken?"
04/15/2012
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We BOTH came into our relationship knowing it was SAFE and FUN...and indeed, PAIN was never going to be part of it, for either of us. WE HATE pain.
And that's the truth, but there are many lies and misinformation floating around about anal.
04/15/2012
abbylover abbylover
We both like it.
04/21/2012
Rossie Rossie
I was actually the one to initiate anal play. My husband's not crazy about it but will participate when I ask him to, he prefers my pussy.
05/10/2012
Beck Beck
I've only had anal with my hubby. He did try to get me to want it at first and I wanted nothing to do with it. I came around on my own though. My hubby will do whatever I want and likes all my holes because they are mine.
05/10/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Glad my man is not into it either but that may change down the line. I am still not into it even though I have tried. I am trying to work up the nerve to try a butt plug now lol.
05/10/2012
Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Glad my man is not into it either but that may change down the line. I am still not into it even though I have tried. I am trying to work up the nerve to try a butt plug now lol.
Just remember to take it slow and easy with lots of lube; and preferably after lots of foreplay and/or vaginal sex.
05/10/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not ... More
Agree
05/15/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not ... More
Yeah he likes it and so do I, but we usually just stick to vaginal penetration
05/16/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The "stereotype" is always the man pushing the woman into it (never been true with us), but indeed, many seem to still think that way. Anyone in the opposite situation? You (female) wants to try it, but you have a guy who is simply not ... More
I've done it before. My current partner is not even interested in trying it out. He's very country...as in his friends refer to it as "the dirt road."
08/20/2012
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