At first to hard to get in?

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At first to hard to get in?

cobiffle cobiffle
My girl and I struggled at first with it because she was to tight for me to go in so it took some time to get it to happen. Did anybody else have this problem?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
It went right in without lube
potstickers , gehuwd , ToyGurl , froggiemoma , Retro , AnotherPrettyFace
6  (8%)
Needed lube to get it in
jjonk , Solar Ray , Coralbell , SexyStuff , MeliPixie , Dusk , ToyTimeTim , Lady Venus , UnknownGirl , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , zeebot , RedGoddess , Adam02viper , girl next door , *HisMrs* , Research , *Ashley* , BadassFatass , Skitlz , Britny , guy4guyz420 , RonLee , Lily Night , Lolla Munz , cobiffle , LavenderSkies , 19WolfMan51 , Karen Affeldt , indiglo , need4fun2469 , UunicornN , Devz , stlouisxxx , AgnesTrevejo , Ms. Spice , Rossie , Inwitari , FreeAsMyHair , ToyBoy , CAKES , Wyo Daisy , The Curious Couple , ichigostrawberry , Bignuf , Kissaki , null , Stagger13 , Miss Nessa , angel142stx , KrazyKandy , colors , SexyRayne , SMichelle , slynch , jjdd , Adriana Ravenlust , aliceinthehole
57  (77%)
Struggled to get it in often until finally able to get it in
MrRainybowbow , Naughty Student , bunny love , Gunsmoke , ninaspinkturtle , AOutrajus , loopyliza , K101 , Mew , Katelyn , dbm6907
11  (15%)
Total votes: 74
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03/01/2011
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jjonk jjonk
eather lube or i have to go slow
03/01/2011
potstickers potstickers
Oh, my bad. I meant to pick needed lube. ALWAYS use lube with anal sex.
03/02/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Always need lube. The first time it wouldn't go int at all.
03/02/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I would never let my boyfriend try to enter my backdoor without some form of lubrication... even if it was just my own natural vaginal fluids.

always always ALWAYS use lubrication of some sort when putting things in your, or your girlfriend's, anus. It's just not safe to skip that vital step.
03/02/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Lube, lube and more lube. When you think you have enough, add some more. The anal cavity does not make its own and tears will be slow to heal and generally not fun.
03/02/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Lube makes a world of difference.
03/02/2011
zeebot zeebot
Always lube for anal! Always!!
03/08/2011
RedGoddess RedGoddess
ALWAYS use a lubricant for anal, the tissue is deliciate and doesn't respond well to hard frictions- ...for most.
03/08/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
Woops didnt read ane nvr done it
03/08/2011
ScottA ScottA
Definitely use lube. Even then you might need to work on getting the penis or toy to go in, because it can be difficult to find the right place, hold it there, and apply the right pressure. Best to have her do the guiding or do it somewhere where you can see.

Another reason you might have problems (especially at first) is anal tension. If your partner tightening their anus then don't press harder - do more foreplay and mentally be willing to call it off, as forcing it will really hurt.
03/08/2011
*Ashley* *Ashley*
It hurt me too much to keep going, but lube is where its at!
03/10/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I would never let anyone near my ass without lube. No way.
03/10/2011
Britny Britny
needed lube. lots of lube.
03/11/2011
guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
I'm a homosexual it comes with the territory.
03/12/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I totally miunderstood this thread, lol.

I though this was about the furst vaginal penetration.

No, I used lube, always have, and plenty of it.
03/13/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I think it is funny when I hear stories of people sticking it in the wrong hole during sex. That has to be one of the biggest and most painful surprises you can get.
03/14/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
always need lube
03/14/2011
need4fun2469 need4fun2469
i can't enter her without lube.
05/31/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
even with lube it takes patience.
05/31/2011
Devz Devz
take it slow and easy even with lube
06/01/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Slow & lubed up. I don't think I would like it if I could slip in easily
06/01/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by cobiffle
My girl and I struggled at first with it because she was to tight for me to go in so it took some time to get it to happen. Did anybody else have this problem?
lube and go slow or lots of pain will be involved
06/02/2011
Rossie Rossie
Lube and plug before the real thing!
06/02/2011
Inwitari Inwitari
Lots of lube- otherwise *ouch*
06/02/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
Lube is the key to anal. It is hard enough with lube, how and why would anyone do anal without lube?
06/03/2011
CAKES CAKES
If we haven't had anal sex in a few days then I need to "warm up" first. Then, it goes in pretty easily with lots of lube.
06/03/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
never attempted without lube
06/03/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We haven't had anal sex yet, but my fiancee and I always use lube for all of our anal toys!
06/03/2011
Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by cobiffle
My girl and I struggled at first with it because she was to tight for me to go in so it took some time to get it to happen. Did anybody else have this problem?
I was very drunk and very into the sex so I think I had my own lube running that way. It went right in for us but haven't tried it again since then
06/03/2011
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