Best beginner butt plug?

Emily! Emily! 11/28/2010

As a butt play beginner, I've been looking around for my first butt plug. There are a lot of options when it comes to smaller introduction plugs and even plug kits. I know that a lot of EF members are experienced in anal play and I would love to hear what you all have to say in regards to the best first purchase.

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Emily! Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Tart , Hallmar82 , Powder , Paladin Fantasys , RosaLita , Cheeky , hhh , souviet , lilyflower
9  (7%)
Sweet-Justice , girl next door , Bignuf , Jimmy Stevenson , Eva Schwaltz
5  (4%)
~LaUr3n~ , just a sub , Lady Venus , liilii080 , Keegski , Brandi Rouxxx , Virgulino , sarki , Beaners , sexxxkitten
10  (7%)
potstickers , toxie m , cobiffle , SexyStuff , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , cujo467 , Lolla Munz , kelaaa33wish , ily , cheetahpita , Stinkytofu10 , Undead , TheHardOne , Kitka , humpday
15  (11%)
ToyGeek , ToyTimeTim , Love Buzz , Ropeguy , middleman , rdytogo , dv8 , Mnemosyne , Lady Marmelade , LavenderSkies , Lio , Miss T , mllebeauty , Envy , eggiweg , mystepmotherisafish , sixfootsex , Alyxx , bobowaxer , GroovyBanana , qquisi , amandaco2011 , starsNairguitars , jay28 , Diabolical Kitty , chidoll , Howells , Misfit Momma , The Curious Couple , DCorrelle , tickle me pink , Drifter86 , SiNn , boobookittyfuk , ColorMeCute , kinkymanda , dudemeister , dezzydezire , zracer , slynch , TameTemptress , padmeamidala , ThoughtsAblaze , ladyred , Elnoa , The Mother of a SiNner , phunkyphreak , CAKES , daveysgirl , Avery Dragon , pinkcupcakes , LuciFaery , sasweetheart89 , Istanbull , sktb0007 , marizipan , Jon S , xjonxthexgreenx , BabyL0ve , ellejay , dhig , mrs.mckrakn , Jammin14580 , ninja250 , switzerland , DreamWolf , I'mNotYourToy , toastedbananas , oneeyedoctopus , GONE! , unfulfilled , comatose-kitty , AJvil , Rawr4483 , Curiouscat , petname , sjclayton2912 , cottonxcandy , Master DarkWolf , treefrog88 , queergaze , BlooJay , Sex Positivity , tA , roskat , nikki0668 , freesoma , SilverMinxxx , Sima-pusya , Incendiaire , LittleHouse , SecretKinksters , pierced cock 4 her , SMichelle , 4everpissedoff , PropertyOfPotter
96  (70%)
MeliPixie
1  (1%)
geliebt
1  (1%)
Total votes: 137
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Are you looking for something that will stay in or something for light thrusting?
11/28/2010
Emily! Emily!
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Are you looking for something that will stay in or something for light thrusting?
Something that will stay in. I want to get something that I can use during sex or just on my own.
11/28/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Something that will stay in. I want to get something that I can use during sex or just on my own.
Then I would say the Flirt. It is made from silicone, so there will be no worries about bad stuff sticking around. It might be a bit larger than you can take, depending on your actual experience, but it should be no problem if you can work up to two fingers now. The others, like the Li'l end, I think you will "out grow" pretty fast as your butt play progresses.

As with all things anal, the ability to relax is the biggest key. Learn to do that and you will be surprised how big of a toy you can get in there. Of course a good lube is crucial. You want something thick, like hair gel and don't be afraid to use it. When you think you have enough, add more. See if you can find a small syringe or something that will allow you to "shoot" the lube in there. That will help a bunch.

One more thing, if you are going to keep it in there for awhile, say over 30 minuets, remove it and apply more lube. I recently had a problem getting a plug to come out, it felt like the lube was not there and it was a bit painful to remove.
11/28/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
I have this jeweled one that is maybe an inch in diameter that is soo pretty and small and steel very easy to use.
11/29/2010
fabjennie fabjennie
Thanks for this post. I am wondering the same thing
11/29/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
was wondering the same. was planing on getting my first. thanks for the post
12/01/2010
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Note: The Tantus Flirt in your poll is the larger version. I recommend the small version for a beginner: link

I am also a newbie to anal play and found the Small Flirt to be a good plug though it does not stay in if you move around much.

I also have the FunFactory Bootie and the LELO Bob. Bob is, by far, the most comfortable and easiest for me to use. The Bootie is a bit harder for me to get in, but is comfortable once it is finally inserted. Both of these, the Bob and the Bootie, also stay in place extremely well.

So . . . I think the LELO Bob is the ultimate beginner butt plug. At least from the ones that I have experienced.
12/01/2010
ScottA ScottA
Flirt is fun, but it doesn't stay in. I would say get a silicone toy as a first one. It's soft (so no pokes) and safe. I would probably second Bob and Bootie.
12/01/2010
Beaners Beaners
Oh man, I'm definitely thinking about investing in a Bob now. I've heard nothing but good things.
12/20/2010
That Guy That Guy
Great thread! I've been wondering about the same thing. I almost picked up a Bob this weekend, but bad reviews talked me out of it. Guess I'll have to give it a try.
01/05/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
Flirt looks good
02/14/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Need something small n slim
03/02/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
All of them
03/02/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
flirt looks the best to me, but i haven't tried any of them. when you get a little more used to it, try the pixie curve. it's my absolute favorite!!
03/11/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
The Flirt looks like a good size and shape for what you're looking for, but the anal finger is good to get yourself used to anal stimulation and ready to take the plug. I didn't vote for it only because it isn't actually a butt plug, in the typical definition of the word.
03/11/2011
Mrs.B Mrs.B
Quote:
Originally posted by Beaners
Oh man, I'm definitely thinking about investing in a Bob now. I've heard nothing but good things.
Bob was my first anal toy. I would recommend it all the way!
04/10/2011
Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
I'd choose the Flirt.
04/19/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It's not on your list, but I like the L'il End.
04/19/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I would choose something that has more than one in the kit.
04/20/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
They sell a toy here called "key to your butt". For a real newbie, it is the BEST.
06/06/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
Honestly...none of the above. I LOVE the "Key to your butt" butt plug. Just perfectly long enough and slim. TWO girlfriends now into anal agree. Enjoy.
07/21/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
Flirt
07/21/2011
sarki sarki
I would go for pleasure 1
07/21/2011
phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
Flirt looks good
07/24/2011
shankinbro shankinbro
I'm a fan of the rectal dilator kit on amazon. Wish eden would sell it so I could write a review for it. The kit can be found cheap and comes with 5 plugs. (The largest one you'll probably never need)
08/11/2011
Beaners Beaners
My boyfriend and I actually have the Pleasure #2, and it worked just fine for me as a first plug. I originally wanted something smaller, but my boyfriend told me that something smaller would be silly and to just play around with the tip on the #2 at first and assured me that I would be moving on to bigger things in no time. And he was right. And I was, and still kind of am, a complete wimp about things going in my butt, so I am by no means very anally experienced. Just my opinion.
08/25/2011
indiglo indiglo
Another one not on your list is Pleasure Pearls. It's a fantastic starter toy!
08/25/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I'd go with the finger.
09/12/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Thanks for the post
09/19/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
I am super new to anal play and both my partner and I are fond of Doc Johnson's Platinum Groove. The size gradually increases and it feels very nice left in during sex. Sometimes I'll wear this as a plug while working on papers or large projects. I highly suggest it.
12/19/2011
ninja250 ninja250
Try the flirt
01/12/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Flirt.
02/25/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
slim probably
02/25/2012
AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
flirt
02/25/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I like the tantus ace
02/25/2012
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
Flirt
02/25/2012
Mr Dj Mr Dj
Quote:
Originally posted by freda
Flirt
it's probably good for beginers just to stretch their butts, but it won't stay in. My gf is very new to anal, but it never stays in. If we put the plug in and want to have vaginal sex at the same time, we have to hold that plug in for "double penetration".
03/05/2012
Kitka Kitka
I voted for the Slim before realizing it was something you'd want to stay in. In that case I would have voted for the Flirt.
03/13/2012
cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Flirt!
04/04/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Flirt.
05/16/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Flirt
05/17/2012
Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Flirt
02/20/2013
souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which smaller sized butt plug is the best for beginner use?
I will note: do NOT get the royales butt plug junior- it's friggin' huge and I have no idea why it's labeled as junior. It was too big for /me/, and I've been at this a while.
02/20/2013
amenti amenti
other: get the Plug of lust small or large!
02/23/2013
4everpissedoff 4everpissedoff
flirt looks nice
02/24/2013
Total posts: 46
Unique posters: 41
Emily! Emily!
Which trainer kit would you suggest over the other? These are the two that I've been looking at.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
ToyTimeTim , just a sub , Tart , potstickers , dv8 , Hallmar82 , Lio , SexyStuff , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , liilii080 , cobiffle , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Alyxx , Brandi Rouxxx , The Curious Couple , Howells , tickle me pink , Virgulino , Lolla Munz , SiNn , dudemeister , dezzydezire , slynch , sarki , The Mother of a SiNner , pinkcupcakes , sasweetheart89 , cheetahpita , Elnoa , Lummox , Jon S , jg19 , geliebt , ninja250 , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , petname , Master DarkWolf , tA , roskat , Sima-pusya , hhh , SecretKinksters , Stinkytofu10
45  (100%)
Total votes: 45
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I don't care for the material but I think this kit is the better value. Plus you get a vibe so you can try some double penetration to see if you like it.
11/28/2010
ScottA ScottA
Don't mess with the kits. Play with fingers a bit and then get a toy that's sized right for you and made of a long-lasting, safe material such as silicone, glass or metal.
03/02/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which trainer kit would you suggest over the other? These are the two that I've been looking at.
juli Ashton
07/21/2011
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
There was no "Other", so I chose Juli Ashton...

You should go with the new silicone beginner kit though.
05/16/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Which trainer kit would you suggest over the other? These are the two that I've been looking at.
Juli Ashton anal beginner
02/24/2013
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Emily! Emily!
Are there any other products worth mentioning that I did not include? Are anal kits worth it or should I just buy seperate pieces of higher quality as my need for a larger plug hits me? Other opinions?
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Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Are there any other products worth mentioning that I did not include? Are anal kits worth it or should I just buy seperate pieces of higher quality as my need for a larger plug hits me? Other opinions?
I would suggest something made of silicone as opposed to rubber or jelly. It is just more sanitary. Rubber and jelly cannot be sanitized and will harbor icky germs.
11/28/2010
Emily! Emily!
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
I would suggest something made of silicone as opposed to rubber or jelly. It is just more sanitary. Rubber and jelly cannot be sanitized and will harbor icky germs.
Yeah that's what I was thinking. That's why I'm not sure if it would be better to go with higher quality seperate pieces size wise, rather than a kit.
11/28/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Anything silicone with a tapered tip and a flared base will do the job. Have fun!
11/28/2010
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Great question, I've been wondering this.
03/03/2011
amenti amenti
The Plug of lust is perfect for anyone just starting out and has 2 sizes to pick from.
02/23/2013
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Unique posters: 5