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Boyfriend just expressed an interest in pegging -

Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
This absolutely just blew my mind. My beau hasn't ever let me anywhere near his rear end, and when I asked him what he thought about butt plugs tonight, he said he thinks they're incredibly hot. Then he expressed an interest in pegging.

I've always thought the idea was really interesting - mostly because I've always wondered what it would be like to have a dick.

But the idea of actually doing it? I dunno...


Thoughts?
04/12/2012
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Raigne Raigne
Role reversal is actual a huge turn on for me, and I have always used the question of whether someone would be willing to bend over for me as a sort of litmus test. My current boyfriend is the only one who has ever said he'd do it. It helped that he was already into playing with anal toys.

If he's excited by it, go for it. Just do a little research together on what to expect and which products you think you'd both enjoy using. It could be a fun activity to make the preparations together, in addition to playing with your new toys when it's all done.
04/12/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Lucky you! I would love to be able to peg my husband, but he would never allow it. Not even a butt plug. Sadly, for him, anything anal is "gay".
04/12/2012
Ansley Ansley
ToyTimeTim did an excellent workshop for us on Prostate Massage. I would start there and then pick up a couple of plugs that are on the smaller end. I would pick silicone or glass, or one of each. The really good toys for pegging are on the higher end of the market for realistic dildos but there are a number of non-realistic toys that the guys around here recommend. I personally like the Toy Five collection.

Do your research on harnesses thoroughly. I think all of the Aslan harnesses are made pretty well and get great reviews.
04/12/2012
ScottA ScottA
Do work up to it. While he is interested, it might still be too much if you just show up with a realistic dildo strapped on and tell him to bend over.

Start with anal play with fingers or plugs, then go together and select a dildo that you both like (possibly a harness as well). Start with handheld play, then eventually harness up and have fun. It can be very intimate and, when done right, can feel good for you both.
04/12/2012
BeachyKeen BeachyKeen
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Originally posted by Sex Positivity
This absolutely just blew my mind. My beau hasn't ever let me anywhere near his rear end, and when I asked him what he thought about butt plugs tonight, he said he thinks they're incredibly hot. Then he expressed an interest in pegging. ...
Have to echo Raigne's comments... I'd love to peg a male partner. Very curious about my ability to give pleasure that way, and the role reversal is just really erotic for me. Like everyone said, go slow. If you haven't experienced anal play using your own body as a playground, now might be a good time to start. And could you send some good pegging partner vibes out for the rest of us? LOL
04/12/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Thank you guys for all of the sound advice. I'll be sure to check out the Aslan harnesses, when the time comes. For now, I'm gonna stick to prostate massages - we'll see how it goes!
04/13/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
I wish my wife would discuss this with me but that wil never happen.
04/14/2012
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Istanbull
I wish my wife would discuss this with me but that wil never happen.
Sometimes you have to take the initiative to introduce the idea of anal play.
04/14/2012
abbylover abbylover
My boyfriend only did it at first because he wanted to try anal with me and he wanted to see what it felt like. At first I didn't want it so he wanted to make sure it was something e would do before trying too hard to get me to do it.

Now we both really like it, both ways.
04/21/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
The ASLAN Cherry Jaguar is to die for, but I wouldn't recommend it as a first harness because of its price. I think the RodeoH is probably the perfect harness for new peggers, because of its comfort, ease of use, and affordability. As pretty as the Jaguar is, and as much as I love it, I still give RodeoH the preference.
04/21/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
...That's hot.
04/21/2012
catsin catsin
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Originally posted by Sex Positivity
This absolutely just blew my mind. My beau hasn't ever let me anywhere near his rear end, and when I asked him what he thought about butt plugs tonight, he said he thinks they're incredibly hot. Then he expressed an interest in pegging. ...
I love pegging.... It's important that he makes certain to clean down there.

As long as he's careful and clean, making sure to honestly express if he becomes uncomfortable it can be even a therapeutic experience.
04/21/2012
lilly555 lilly555
Do work your way up to pegging using some of the smaller anal toys (length & girth small) like the Ripple or Bootie. Both of which are silicone and would be more pliable than other rigid materials like glass. Also if you're looking into a double ended dildo make sure to research throughly. I like the Share because you don't need a harness, but a negative is that the bulb can be uncomfortable for some women. If not you can always go with a didlo you already own and a new harness
04/22/2012
NewEnglandCouple NewEnglandCouple
Sounds like you have a winner, go for it.
04/24/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by ScottA
Sometimes you have to take the initiative to introduce the idea of anal play.
I introduced the idea 15 years ago and stopped asking about it five years ago. If ten years won't get her to give anal a try, she'll never try it..... Like I said, it will never happen.


(Of coarse I have thought about bribing her with cold hard cash to let me have her anally, in hopes I do it good enough that she loves it.)
04/24/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
Most women would jump at screwing her man in the ass. Just do it.
04/28/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Can someone enlighten me to what pegging is? I've heard it around the forums but have yet to figure out what it is.
04/28/2012
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by JG24FanUK
Can someone enlighten me to what pegging is? I've heard it around the forums but have yet to figure out what it is.
Pegging is a specific form of anal intercourse. it's when a woman wears a dildo in a harness and uses that dildo to have penetrative anal sex with a man and he receives. Yes, it can feel good for both partners. No, it does not mean either partner is gay or that the man is "girly".
04/29/2012
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