Can men enjoy anal and still be heterosexual?

AzureStroke AzureStroke
Personally, I believe that they can. However, I've had a many friends that just don't understand pegging for straight men and think it's either unnatural or that men who enjoy anal cannot be straight. I'm just curious about what everyone else thinks.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, it's natural for even straight men to enjoy receiving anal.
189  (98%)
No, if a man enjoys receiving anal, he cannot be straight.
4  (2%)
Total votes: 193
Poll is closed
04/16/2012
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leanright69 leanright69
Love to have my butt played with and one doesn't get much straighter than me. Have never considered myself to be the least bit interested in same gender play.
04/16/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Well, just like all the threads about this topic have said the answer is yes. The anus has thousands of nerve endings just like the penis and vagina. As such it's no wonder why so many guys (Straight or gay) enjoy it so much.

There is probably fifty or more threads around here, have you friends read them.
04/16/2012
closed account closed account
that's what is great about Edenfantasys...if you pay attention,ya know that the answer is yes.
if anyone thinks the answer is no, i urge you to do some reading, and maybe some experimenting
04/16/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
If you like anal play you like anal play.

If you are sexually aroused and want to have sexual intercourse with same-sex partners you are homosexual.

You can be both, you can be neither, and you can be just one of those. Just like there are tons of homosexual couples that don't do anal intercourse (like 60% or something) there are plenty of straight, pan, or trans people that do. Anal stimulation has nothing to do with sexual preference.
04/16/2012
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
If you like anal play you like anal play.

If you are sexually aroused and want to have sexual intercourse with same-sex partners you are homosexual.

You can be both, you can be neither, and you can be just one of those. Just like there ... More
That would be my observation as well Ryuson.
04/16/2012
joja joja
Of course. What a silly question.
04/16/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by AzureStroke
Personally, I believe that they can. However, I've had a many friends that just don't understand pegging for straight men and think it's either unnatural or that men who enjoy anal cannot be straight. I'm just curious about what everyone else thinks.
I don't see why not. I know lesbians who like to be penetrated by toys, so why can't this be the same thing, but opposite?
04/16/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Of course, men are built like that! ^^ (Though I haven't met too many who were into it... ^^)
04/16/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
Quote:
Originally posted by badk1tty
I don't see why not. I know lesbians who like to be penetrated by toys, so why can't this be the same thing, but opposite?
Exactly. How we pleasure ourselves doesn't necessarily equate to our sexual orientation.
04/16/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
If you like anal play you like anal play.

If you are sexually aroused and want to have sexual intercourse with same-sex partners you are homosexual.

You can be both, you can be neither, and you can be just one of those. Just like there ... More
I agree
04/17/2012
jokerzwild jokerzwild
Sure they can anal has nothing to do with orientation in any way. I'm a strait male with zero interest in anal but that isn't because I'm strait.
04/17/2012
Woman China Woman China
I personal feel that whatever sexual act you enjoy does not determine if you are straight, gay, bi or lesbian. It all depends on the gender of the partner you choose to be with.
04/17/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
If you like anal play you like anal play.

If you are sexually aroused and want to have sexual intercourse with same-sex partners you are homosexual.

You can be both, you can be neither, and you can be just one of those. Just like there ... More
Perfect answer is perfect.
04/17/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have learned to really like anal play but have never dabbled in homosexuality. There is an issue however of my wife wanting to avoid using phallic shaped dildos on me - she prefers non-phallic designs. Presumably it reassures her that I'm not gay.
04/17/2012
Terri69 Terri69
Anal play does not automatically equal homosexuality.
04/17/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by AzureStroke
Personally, I believe that they can. However, I've had a many friends that just don't understand pegging for straight men and think it's either unnatural or that men who enjoy anal cannot be straight. I'm just curious about what everyone else thinks.
Straight men have nerves back there. Straight men have prostates that enjoy attention. Being GAY or HOMOSEXUAL is an attraction to the same sex. It has NOTHING to do with what body part enjoys being stimulated...just by WHO. My hubby is as boringly straight as they get, and he enjoys ME playing with his tush, as he has enjoyed it from other woman. Likewise, I enjoy having him play with MINE, but have no interest in any woman doing it to me!!! YES, 100% a straight guy can enjoy anal play!!!
04/17/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I have learned to really like anal play but have never dabbled in homosexuality. There is an issue however of my wife wanting to avoid using phallic shaped dildos on me - she prefers non-phallic designs. Presumably it reassures her that I'm not gay.
I enjoy "pegging" and playing with my hubby's tush, but I know HE is not gay and HE is not interested in being penetrated by a PENIS...but by a TOY (or my finger), and thus I DO NOT want to use a penis looking device on him. I stick to fantasy probes and such. HE has never said anything about it, one way or another, but I know he appreciates my being aware of that aspect.
04/17/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Well, just like all the threads about this topic have said the answer is yes. The anus has thousands of nerve endings just like the penis and vagina. As such it's no wonder why so many guys (Straight or gay) enjoy it so much.

There is ... More
Um...and why us gals do too!!!!!
04/17/2012
sexiskewt sexiskewt
Nothing left unsaid in this thread or the many others like it.
04/17/2012
mlmac mlmac
I love anal play, but I'm only attracted to females, so I don't really think that it makes me gay. ( no offense to the gay community). So I'll just stick to my slogan " If it feels good, why not?"
04/17/2012
ScottA ScottA
It's all about who not how. Penetration doesn't make you gay, a "girlie man" or anything else negative.

Those of us who enjoy anal play, whatever the sexuality, are the ones who can say that we're not afraid of our own asses.
04/17/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
I'm straight. It's all good.
04/17/2012
dhig dhig
yes, absolutely
04/17/2012
ninja250 ninja250
of course.
04/20/2012
abbylover abbylover
I wanna know who voted the other way. lol
04/21/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by abbylover
I wanna know who voted the other way. lol
Me too, it would be great to hear their reasoning behind it.
04/21/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
As many others have said, orientation is about who you love not what activities you engage in with your significant other.

Some analogies you can use with your narrow minded friends.

Let your friends know that a lot of lesbian women engage in strap on play, with one women receiving vaginal penetration from the other. That doesn't mean they are secretly hetero. I know some gay men who enjoy masturbation tubes that look like vaginas, that doesn't mean they are secretly hetero, either.

Many women, lesbian and straight, enjoy vaginal penetration, this act is not exclusive to hetero women. Many men, straight and gay enjoy.... sticking their dicks into things. That isn't confined to only straight guys. Also many men, and women enjoy being penetrated anally. (Lots of nerve endings, as people have said. More for men because they have a prostate, more than even women. But we can access our G spots with anal play.) In fact, some gay men don't even use anal stimulation in their sex. The specifics acts don't determine sexual attraction.

It's WHO you love and want to have sex with, not what activities you like to engage in.

I'm a hetero female in a hetero relationship. I like to be anally penetrated by a man. Does that make me..... a gay man? Nope. I love men and like to have sex with men. It's who you love, not what you do.
04/21/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Anal=fun for all
04/21/2012
ginas ginas
sexuality is who you love, not what you do!
04/21/2012
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