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It might go over better if you simply ask her. Trying to suave your way when it comes to anal sex usually ends up rather nastily. It's always better to simply ask if she likes to be touched there and if she is interested in the act itself.
I originally included a "Ask her" part but then removed it. The fact is there's pretty much no easy way I can see in asking that comes across good.
The idea of asking anything "Can I touch you _____?" just seems ackward and goofy, like if she says "yes" one then responds with "Thank you". It just seems to me that no matter how I one could go about it, there's a high risk of turnoff and driving her away.
I was talking with a girl I went to high school with on-line. We eventually got to talking about hooking up and we did this over a week. Every once in a while we talked sex and then I finally started asking what she was in to. Her response was "Well what do you mean?" and I asked about things like oral and swallowing, condoms yes/no, such and such and she would respond with "Yes, maybe, Oh Yes". Than I asked if she liked anal and she typed "ABSOLUTLY NOT!" and blocked me.